[Bete_Noire]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 years now and just recently he has been bringing up the issue of an inevitable break up. We're both still in college and have plans for the future, I want to see the world and he wants to be a nurse. He thinks our paths are doomed to separate us apart and won't stop mentioning it even though it bothers me.

He has also started saying things like "I was looking for a girl to spend the rest of my life with" almost like what we had was nothing even though I believed we had a very strong connection. It's starting to make me physically ill.

If only I knew what he was thinking I could understand him better.

[Leed]

Why not ASK him what he's thinking? You'll never know otherwise. Tell him these remarks are bothering you, and you need to know if he thinks the end is near with your relationship. And if it is, why hasn't he said something more clearly cause you may as well end it now instead of wasting more time!

I hope he's not thinking that way for your sake, but if he is, why bother with him anymore? You're just wasting your time with him. So ask him point blank, and see what he says. Best of luck and God bless. Hugs, Lee