[msconcerned]

To start off, I'd like to thank you for reading my post.

This friend of mine whom I've known for approx half a year now (long distance, never met in person, but assured that she's not a fluke) - have suddenly gone no contact. I had friends, best friends who came and left, wouldn't think much of it. But this one ... more complicated.

Met her online in June. And we've gotten closer since till now. (I do a lot of penpals across the globe and networking as well, so always cautious) Problem is, there were no problems unsolved or hidden btwn us. Cause we were so straightforward to each other, I don't think I have a secret left untold. She has a one year old daughter, single mom - and recently have revealed our feelings for each other.
At first I thought that may have been the reason (fear of commitment) that she went into no contact mode all of a sudden. But what makes no sense is that she was still in intimate everyday phone calls/ texts and pic exchange with me 2 weeks prior to the "honestly i have feelings for you/ i do too" conversation.

So she goes MIA. I'm here worried, cause yes, she's had some potential natural death threats, and she's got an adorable baby. As a FRIEND, a close friend, how do I chill out? L-Theanine, I've tried. Hollistic therapy, I'm currently still doing. I tend to give my heart in too fast. Boundaries dude, but yea - long story --not much boundaries developed all my life (might be something wrong) But yes, I gave in my heart, gave it in deeper when we decided to be honest with our feelings, 6 months every night phone calls (NEVER missed a night), -- she said her phone broke. Got herself a new one, texts me that she's got it, then nothing. I think I'm more worried about her than devastated that she may not feel the same way as I do.

Don't know where she lives exactly. Was planning to get plane tickets to her, but with her not responding, don't think it's a good idea..? I've sent email, voicemails, and texts. Phone rings 3-4 times then to VM. And yup, my short story (long actually).
Any advice? or tough love comments?

[LoveU]

I am not sure but I guess you trust online people so easy. Some people do play game and pretending they are someone but when you want to meet them, they disappear because they see no more fun... hoping I were wrong but I heard couple stories like this and people just had to move on eventually because nothing else you will be able to do besides keep wondering what and why, good luck

[msconcerned]

I guess I do easily trust people in general. Here's the catch, she was the one who constantly mentioned wanting to visit me and wanting me to visit her. We also discussed the time and dates that she'd expect me. But then, MIA. What bothers me is, my heart grew close to her and her daughter. I have a phone filled with their pictures, 6 months worth. And of course developed feelings for each other.