[MrReclusive]

My wife and I have had problems in the past and worked through them.

Right now she shows 0 affection towards me regardless of how much I show her.
we only have sex once a week and it seems like shes only doing it to keep me slightly happy and around.

I'm at the point where I don't know if she still loves me or is just still with me because the kids.
I love her to death and I'm constantly trying to do things to keep her happy, but it seems like she never does anything in return.

I am at the point where i don't know if i want to keep fighting for the relationship.
i am tired and just want to be with some one that wants to be with me.

[Karlam1991]

It's very good to keep trying dont give up especially now that there's children involved
I read this book it's called the five love languages by Gary chapman I recommend it I believe it could work with your relationship she should read as it well.
And also talking may help listen to what she dislikes and makes her unhappy.
Good luck.

[Leed]

I'm sorry. What has happened in the past to make this come about? Do you know?

I think the only way you're going to find out anything is to sit her down, and gently talk to her. Ask her if she loves you anymore, and what she wants. Ask her if she's willing to work on the marriage -- and if she'll go to marriage counseling, because that's what you both need, evidently. It sounds like you two don't communicate at ALL. You two need to learn how to communicate in order to get these issues out. Neither one of you is a mind-reader, and you can't know what the other one wants if neither of you is willing to tell the other. So see if she'll go with you to a marriage counselor. If she won't, then evidently she's not willing to work on the marriage -- and that should tell you something.

I'm sorry this is happening, but something must have happened to get you two to this point in your marriage.

I wish you the very best. Please keep us posted as to what happens, ok? God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee