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Feb 03, 2013, 04:20 PM
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My boyfriend and I seem to be completely consumed with eachother. We are both lacking in family. We only have eachother. I consider him my best friend. We love to be together laughing, and enjoying each others company but we both are very needy we cant be away from eachother, we cant stop talking on the phone, we always have to be in some form of contact. Never really apart. Even though we are miles away from eachother. Sometimes I feel like it is a bit un-healthy. He is my sanity. I feel like he is the only person that brings me a coping mechanism from all the chaos in my life. He is also Bipolar.
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Feb 03, 2013, 04:32 PM
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Did you just start dating? If so this is probably normal. (I was a bit like this...used to text over 1000+ messages to my bf a month when we were long distance)
I think its fine so long as you're still doing other stuff and socializing.
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Feb 03, 2013, 04:41 PM
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We have been together for 14mos. He lives very, very far away from me. We spend a ton of money on the phone. And we are both very sexually frustrated. I have never felt such intense passion for any man. I feel out of control of my emotions, AND I am a super control freak.
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Feb 03, 2013, 04:51 PM
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I was like that for the first 2 and a bit years with my b/f - and we were long distance too! Really nice, really good fun. Enjoy while it lasts, that's what I say. I made the move to be with him, and pretty much all that giddy feeling ended, ha. I think its ok to feel like it, enjoy it. But lay good foundations for the future. see friends and have interests too, so if things calm down, then you've both plenty of good things to do and things to talk about, rather than rely on each other 100%.
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Feb 03, 2013, 04:55 PM
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Thank you! I feel a little more sane. He wants to move here. Iam nervous and worried because I have 3 kids. I will be positive, and try to keep negative Nelly locked in the closet.
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Feb 03, 2013, 05:00 PM
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I agree with what Riot says.
My boyfriend moved to be with me. You have to work to keep a spark after they move in because it can get dull. It helps that we have a lot of similar hobbies so we're able to do activities together AND that we do things separate from one another too. Don't make them you 100%, you'll regret it. (Plus its not healthy)
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Feb 03, 2013, 05:15 PM
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I really just cant wait for the sex... Call me crazy!
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