[Keera1994]

Been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He was a nice gentlemen and he still is .but as we got to the middle of our relationship I started talking guys behind his back but i know I was wrong I told him he was upset but he still wanted to be with me cuz he loved me so much but I didn't believe in love . He told ever since I hurted him he began angry because I always use to hurt him . Am I being a good girlfriend ? I now do love him but I don't think he trust me . I broke up with him for stupid reason but then at the end of the day we back together . I don't why I cause these things toward him and it seem like I can't never get answers . My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time together and the only time we take break is Sundays and sometime Saturday . He said I'm always hurting him by breaking up for no reason saying mean thing toward him . He doesn't do anything to me but give me these evil look like he wants to hit me . I just want to be a good girlfriend.

[Travelinglady]

Keera, have you been in therapy? Talking with an expert might help you get a better handle on why you are acting the way you are, so you can be a better girlfriend.

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by Keera1994

He said I'm always hurting him by breaking up for no reason saying mean thing toward him

Why you break up for no reason may be a complicated issue worthy of consulting a T, but the issue of not saying mean things is easily solvable without incurring the cost of T. Just be polite. Be polite towards everybody you encounter, whether you sleep with that person or just buy coffee from them - regardless. Politeness is priceless and extremely useful in life, and by practicing being polite with him you will kill many, many birds because your politeness would serve you well in the workplace, at school, and everywhere else.

[IowaFarmGal]

It's hard to know what to do sometimes. I'm sure you must have thought you had a reason when you broke up. What were you needing that you weren't getting when you were talking with other guys? I'm sure it's hard on both of you. Maybe put aside what you think you "should" feel and look at how you actually feel without putting right or wrong to it? Good Luck to both of you!