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Old Mar 01, 2013, 09:37 PM
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what are the best things to do to get rid of tension and stress? when i'm bored, I have nothing to do. Of course, there's always the tv and the computer, but I've gotten old to these things already. I'm ready to start going out with my friends, but they're schedule is pretty busy and I have no one to talk to during the weekends. Sometimes I just don't know what to do. When I feel like I need to relieve stress, I just have no plans whatsoever. can someone offer me any advice on how i can just get rid of stress and tension that's building up in me right now?

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Old Mar 01, 2013, 10:19 PM
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Cardio. Simple and always works.
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Old Mar 01, 2013, 10:21 PM
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Maybe try volunteering. I am sure public libraries need weekend volunteers.
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Old Mar 01, 2013, 10:43 PM
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when i feel tension in my body i just want to masturbate.
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Old Mar 01, 2013, 10:44 PM
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what can i do to counteract this type of behavior?
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Old Mar 01, 2013, 10:46 PM
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It is normal behavior which does not need to be counteracted unless you masturbate in public a lot.
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Old Mar 01, 2013, 11:06 PM
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i dont masturbate in public but privately yes. i don't know why. maybe it's because i'm very young.
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Old Mar 01, 2013, 11:24 PM
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i dont masturbate in public but privately yes. i don't know why. maybe it's because i'm very young.
You are lucky. The guy I am currently seeing started masturbating at twelve.

I at nineteen or even twenty. Delayed development.

Talk about wasted years.
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Old Mar 01, 2013, 11:55 PM
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oh dear. twelve is a very young age. that's when i first started being attracted to people and then things gradually escalated into what it is now.
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Old Mar 01, 2013, 11:57 PM
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oh dear. twelve is a very young age. that's when i first started being attracted to people and then things gradually escalated into what it is now.
For me, there was no connection. First attraction, masturbation much later. My mother told me that I first caressed a boy at three. And then masturbation at twenty. Go figure.
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Old Mar 02, 2013, 12:01 AM
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haha. there seems to be no connection to that. i wonder why so many people think it's so bad.
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Old Mar 02, 2013, 12:14 AM
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List your sources and let us take a look at them
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Old Mar 02, 2013, 12:20 AM
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As an FYI, this forum is about relationships and communication, and most threads on it are about 2+ folks. Masturbation is a solitary activity, unless part of partner sex. In your case, solitary. So be prepared to have the thread moved by moderators.
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