[firefighter369]

so I liked this girl. we go to school together and we are always talking and texting and hanging out. she showed all the signs of liking me. she was always touching making eye contact always smiling at me and around me. BUT I didn't make my move! I was afraid of losing her all together. so I dated this other girl and a few days later that girl broke up with me. but me and the girl I liked were texting last night and she said " if I tell you something do you promise u wont get weirded out ir mad? so I said "I promise" seeing I never judge anyone and she texted back saying "I used to like you...and when u dated liz(the other girl) I got jealous" and when I read that my heart sank because I really really liked this girl. I dated the other girl because I thought their was a cold days chance in hell she liked me back. now im beating myself up over it

if she liked you then she should still like you now, even if you dated another girl...it's not like you grew a second head or something. Did you ask her what changed? Jealousy often leads (esp. in young love) to MORE interest. Have you tried just asking her to do something fun with you, like maybe during a weekend day, so there is not too much pressure on either of you?

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by tractionbeam0610

if she liked you then she should still like you now, even if you dated another girl...it's not like you grew a second head or something. Did you ask her what changed? Jealousy often leads (esp. in young love) to MORE interest. Have you tried just asking her to do something fun with you, like maybe during a weekend day, so there is not too much pressure on either of you?

Oh I just love it about the second head.

Also agree that jealousy can be a fine motivating factor at times - nothing wrong with that.

You wrote that: "cold days chance in hell she liked me back".

Well, text it to her! Text it to her verbatim - "cold chance in hell" is a strong way to put it.

It may just blow her away. No harm in trying, at any rate.

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by firefighter369

I didn't make my move! I was afraid of losing her all together.

That part, too. Very nice.

Text that to her as well. Sounds very genuine and hopefully will warm her heart.

You sound very genuine overall, and that is a very attractive feature in both men and women. So you should do well in you life, in terms of finding partners.

[lonelygirl8]

Good story. I heard a lot of relationship issues like that.

[Perna]

Originally Posted by firefighter369

but me and the girl I liked were texting last night and

And, keep texting! It's like a fire you have allowed to get down to coals; put some fresh kindling on it and blow away the cold ash.

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by tractionbeam0610

if she liked you then she should still like you now, even if you dated another girl...it's not like you grew a second head or something. Did you ask her what changed? Jealousy often leads (esp. in young love) to MORE interest. Have you tried just asking her to do something fun with you, like maybe during a weekend day, so there is not too much pressure on either of you?

I didn't ask her. but I was going to. we are going to prom together though

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

Oh I just love it about the second head.

Also agree that jealousy can be a fine motivating factor at times - nothing wrong with that.

You wrote that: "cold days chance in hell she liked me back".

Well, text it to her! Text it to her verbatim - "cold chance in hell" is a strong way to put it.

It may just blow her away. No harm in trying, at any rate.

what is verbatim?

Verbatim means "word for word"

And if you are going to the prom together I am pretty darn sure she likes you. Most girls consider that a fairly important event and don't go with just any guy.

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by tractionbeam0610

Verbatim means "word for word"

And if you are going to the prom together I am pretty darn sure she likes you. Most girls consider that a fairly important event and don't go with just any guy.

thank you for informing me what verbatim means and she returned her dress when I started dating that girl and when we broke up I brought up prom and she said "we are still going I just have to find a new dress!"she was very insistent

Originally Posted by firefighter369

thank you for informing me what verbatim means and she returned her dress when I started dating that girl and when we broke up I brought up prom and she said "we are still going I just have to find a new dress!"she was very insistent

Well good then, she obviously likes you, she was just hurt and probably imagining you with the other girl was hard for her. If you really like her, put yourself out there and let her know! How far away is the prom?

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by tractionbeam0610

Well good then, she obviously likes you, she was just hurt and probably imagining you with the other girl was hard for her. If you really like her, put yourself out there and let her know! How far away is the prom?

april 20th I believe