How much does wealth influence relationships?

All this started because I was thinking when I finish truck driving school (supposed to start that in the summer) and making some good money, I’d like to replace our vehicles. Our vehicles are a little old and neither of them are ideal for where we live. It would be beneficial for us if we had a 4X4 – we live on a gravel road and it can be hellish driving here – and I was thinking I’d like a sports car for myself. It’s not that I want something ‘flashy’ or expensive but that I do a lot of driving and I like to feel confident about what I drive, similar to how I like to wear clothes that express who I am.

I was looking at what cars I could lease or finance that aren’t too expensive, are sporty, can be used as an average car (i.e., not a two-seater that can do nothing for me except drive fast or look good), and are compatible with where I live.

Ford Mustang’s are nice but aren’t really the best for where I live and too many people own them, Dodge Charger’s aren’t all that nice, and I went through this process of elimination.

Finally I thought of the Subaru Impreza WRX STi. I haven’t seen many of those on the road and the specifications are awesome! .





It has 4 doors and can seat 5 people, an AWD system so it can handle the unpaved roads I travel on, a turbocharged engine with 300+ horsepower and it can do 0 - 60 mph in under 5 seconds with a top speed of 165 mph, and it is a little pricey but workable if I can buy a used one (I found some excellent priced ones on the Internet!).

Only after the fact did I think if owning something like this would make me more desirable to women.

You say that a man is handsome when he smiles no matter his attributes, NW, but what if that man has a hideous smile like me? .

I don’t consider myself to be shallow and I don’t think that owning a car will make me better. I’m am simply one that can appreciate a nice car and likes to have a little fun when I drive .

Yeah I do clubs and the like but it is still hard to meet women because few individuals my own age have an interest in the things I do. I am told I am limited in options because I refuse to drink alcoholic beverages and visit bars.

I was volunteering last weekend and was hospitalized because of an accident .

I’ve never said that I don’t have qualities I think would be beneficial in a relationship – I don’t lie, I believe I am empathetic, I am certainly not boring, etc. But it seems like this is never enough .

Perhaps I don’t give myself enough credit, Rose, but I never know if credit is warranted because it never seems like those qualities I have are enough .

I do not understand car specs, but the blue color on the photo is divine, Mr Venomous.

The Impreza also has a really good safety rating I think. I like Suburu's.

You aren't in the NW are you?! They are The Stereotype car here because they are so reliable, safe, look good & can do all weather. Definitely a good choice.
I like it.
I hope my off the cuff thoughts were taken as that. Just well meaning thoughts coming your way.

I haven't read all the replys (sorry)

My thoughts .. Money does not make a person attractive.

You mentioned going out and typically not seeing that person again.. that could be a number of things not all your fault or her's.
Get involved with charity work.. You can build great relationships with people whether it be a great friend or more.
You mentioned your smile... maybe put some money into that aspect of your appearance and its also a good health point.

And it is true when you stop looking for that special someone you will indeed bump,ram,trip over them,

Good Luck , I hope you find what you are looking for

Two years ago, I felt exactly like this and started talking to an "online" counselor. I found out that there are good and bad types of love, and if you want to attract s.o. who unconditionally loves you (true love), then you have to love yourself first. I found out I was addicted to the idea of love, which is also known as codependency. I was trying to get someone to give me the time, value and attention that I needed to give myself. I suggest you read about this and start from this minute forward becoming your own friend and supporter. When you do that, then you will spend on yourself, appreciate your good points, love to give time to your own interests. And when you are fiiled with self-love, that attracts others who are ready for a healthy relationship. Try not to start one based on neediness or superficial things. All the best.