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Apr 23, 2013, 10:53 PM
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I am guy and I have this friend and we used to hang out from time to time and now all of a sudden he always has to be near me and talking to me. I was hanging out with some of my other friends on Saturday making a movie like we always do and me and my friend were taxting and I said "we can maybe hang out today, it depends when I get done here, im guessing 1-2 o'clock" and once 12:30 hit my phone rang none stop from this kid. I would answer and tell him I will call him when I am done. come to find out he was sitting on a dirt road by my other friends house for hours waiting for me. today I went fishing with the friend I make movies and my "stalker" followed us to a gas station and we thought we lost him and when we were done fishing I found one of my hats on my fishing buddies hood, a hat I forgot in my "stalker" friends truck the other day. it was just sitting their. im starting to get freaked out. my brothers getting angry. im getting pushed to my breaking point and im gonna lose it. I hate fighting, I don't unless I have to. but im actually scared that this kid will get into my house while im sleeping or not home. I have no clue how to handle this
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#2
Apr 23, 2013, 11:26 PM
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can you just ask him? he sounds very lonely. sorry it's freaky for you
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Apr 23, 2013, 11:28 PM
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He seems clingy , reply with "sorry I am busy" about a couple days later. "I will" would make him think about it the whole day.
I would feel bad because he might just want to socialize, but he's doing it inapproprirately, doesn't he have your other friends to chill with? |
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Apr 23, 2013, 11:46 PM
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Apr 23, 2013, 11:48 PM
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Apr 23, 2013, 11:51 PM
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What is this persons age? Sounds like he may really need a friend/help. maybe?
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Apr 24, 2013, 12:01 AM
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Apr 24, 2013, 12:32 AM
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I'm thinking....
Are you guys still living with family or at college...are there older people who know him that you can ask for help? You don't have to be responsible for him, but it is nice that you are concerned. It doesn't sound promising for a friendship right now. To me.
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Apr 24, 2013, 01:20 AM
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I'm think a restraining order. This does not sound like a normal person's action.
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Apr 24, 2013, 02:35 PM
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Apr 24, 2013, 02:39 PM
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This friend of yours need a therapist. He is insecure and that is why he is acting this way. It is true he is pushing others away by his behavior but has anybody really thought about the reason behind such a behavior?
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