would you have a relationship with a woman with a large tummy?

Sure I would. I don't care what you look like.

I don't what to think about this issue. I was always told things like I was too fat and that I won't be truly attractive until I'm at least a size 8. And since I'm the skinniest I've been in years at a size 12 and I'm still not attractive to people (never dated). And this is after people say I'm so pretty or something....maybe size 12 isn't small enough anymore?

I don't know. I wish it didn't matter, but it must.

AF's sizes end at 10 and they target the super skinny, so size 12 is totally fine.

It depends on the size chart you're looking at. Most places, a size 12 is between a Large and an Extra Large, with the sizes going down to 0. And if I were to look at any height/weight chart, I would be obese.

Wow, really? That's nuts!! A size 12 is a 14 in the UK, and that's totally average. Not too fat, not too thin, perfect size if you ask me

I also think whoever told you that weight matters to the extent of not dating I think has issues of their own, and that you've decided that its why you have never dated is probably not the reason. It could be that you're looking at the wrong people - people who care too much about weight for starters. A tad shallow that is.

As I said in a previous post, by that reasoning anyone skinny would not be single, and anyone plump would never date and this is simply not true.

Ditto!

Size 12 is usually Large. Which is perfectly decent. Usually US Size 14 and up are XL.