[xxKaneLovesZoexx]

Basically for sometime now my girlfriend's seemed off with me. Like it seems to be such an effort now just to be in a relationship. She never tells me how she is, or how she feels. She doesn't promise me if something's not right.

What can I do now? I feel like my last resort is to slowly slip away?

[elvinchild]

I've been in this position before - you're right, communication is of utmost importance. Have you discussed it all with your girlfriend? Let her know that you feel a distance between you. Tell her that in order to continue the relationship you'll need her to stay in touch about how she's feeling. Ask her what it is that's getting in the way. Is she having doubts about the relationship itself? Is she stressing over other aspects of her life?

[xxKaneLovesZoexx]

Originally Posted by elvinchild

I've been in this position before - you're right, communication is of utmost importance. Have you discussed it all with your girlfriend? Let her know that you feel a distance between you. Tell her that in order to continue the relationship you'll need her to stay in touch about how she's feeling. Ask her what it is that's getting in the way. Is she having doubts about the relationship itself? Is she stressing over other aspects of her life?

She just doesn't discuss it. I've told her a million and one times to tell me but makes no difference. She's always fed up now and I'm just thinking maybe it's time to part?

[vasiliki021]

Maybe she needs a little time to be alone. Try not to press her. Just give her a little place for a while and then try again. I think that she prefers that you don't make it worse by "annoying" her.