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Old May 25, 2013, 11:07 PM
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I don’t get people, I look to see what I have written on here (PC), at past posts, and it all sounds so different from everybody else, what am I missing!! I just don’t get it. Will I ever belong?!
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Old May 26, 2013, 09:43 AM
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Of course you belong! It might sound different to YOU, but I doubt it sounds different to others.

It's hard to judge ourselves. Others don't judge us -- at least most people don't and shouldn't judge us. Most people are here to help us. But just because it sounds "different" to you, doesn't mean that it IS.

Just keep posting, my friend. I don't think you're as different as you THINK you are. Stick around, okay? You'll find others who are just like you.

God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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Old May 26, 2013, 03:41 PM
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I don’t get people, I look to see what I have written on here (PC), at past posts, and it all sounds so different from everybody else, what am I missing!! I just don’t get it. Will I ever belong?!

The more diverse we are, the better, in my opinion!!
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Old May 26, 2013, 03:58 PM
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I completely relate to your feeling of not belonging. this was how it was for me, all through growing up- feeling like I had to be something i wasn't in order to fit in. I don't know how old you are, but it can get better, and it will. hang in there! There is a saying, "the people who matter don't care, and the people who care dont matter."
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Old May 26, 2013, 04:02 PM
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I don’t get people, I look to see what I have written on here (PC), at past posts, and it all sounds so different from everybody else, what am I missing!! I just don’t get it. Will I ever belong?!
The experiences are different, but the emotions and feelings may be related.
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Old May 26, 2013, 10:53 PM
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I just wanted to say a big THANK YOU! to all who have responded. I at first wanted to delete the post, but didn't know how, but I am glad that I didn't now, because the feed back was more than I could have ever hoped for. I will keep on truckin'.....
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Old May 28, 2013, 07:30 PM
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Don't worry, I have those feelings too, you definitely belong here. . It just takes time to get used to this site, I know I am lol. I'm here if you ever want to talk bud. Take care.
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Old Jun 05, 2013, 04:30 PM
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I don’t get people, I look to see what I have written on here (PC), at past posts, and it all sounds so different from everybody else, what am I missing!! I just don’t get it. Will I ever belong?!
I want to apologize I've been trying to send you messages but it won't let me yet. I haven't been ignoring you for I was in the hospital,well I admitted myself a couple weeks ago for I'm still feeling intense loneliness. I do hope you get this if not I'm going to keep trying. I apreciate your friendship
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Old Jun 06, 2013, 12:23 AM
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I don’t get people, I look to see what I have written on here (PC), at past posts, and it all sounds so different from everybody else, what am I missing!! I just don’t get it. Will I ever belong?!
In addition to agreeing with all of the above, I want to point out that your post count is only 25. It is a very small number - you are trying to extract some kind of pattern (are you different? are you similar? etc) from insufficient data. You just do not have enough information, period.
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