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Jun 14, 2013, 07:31 PM
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After getting Married , I came to know my wife had an affair for 5 years and she got physical relation with her ex for twice.She already confessed it and cried after that.I know she loves me a lot now.But her past is now killing me.I am feeling that I can't love her in tgat way she loves me now.I just want to forget everything but that dirty image always comes to me when I start to think abt her.I cant control myself and hurt her a lot by conversation.I didnt even meet her last 2 years where we got married for 2 yreas and 2 months.I just was with her months only and then i only talk to her over the phone as we r staying now 2 different countries..I just want to forget her past and want a beautiful couple life.Please Help me.
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Jun 15, 2013, 12:05 AM
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Nobody can really help you, well in my opinion. This is all you. Have you seen a therapist?
Also, have you told her about the way you feel? |
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Jun 15, 2013, 12:15 AM
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Please tell me something so that I can concentrate to her present instead of past.I just want to get rid off these thing.
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Jun 15, 2013, 03:19 AM
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I trusr that she could realize my pain but not that way as her bf had an affair before that by which once she bothered...may be it happened in her early stage of relation where these things hard to realize badly..who knows it cud be a reason of her break up.
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Jun 15, 2013, 08:10 AM
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Jun 15, 2013, 03:01 PM
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Her past is just THAT -- it's in the PAST and has nothing to do with YOU. She didn't even KNOW you then. If she had she wouldn't have done it!
Forgive and forget it. Everyone deserve forgiveness! God has forgiven her, so why can't YOU. Don't hold it against her. She loves YOU now. Leave the past where it belongs -- in the past. Don't think about it, don't talk about it, don't bring it up. It's GONE and forgotten! Take care and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield |
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Jun 15, 2013, 10:59 PM
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Please consolidate your threads into one. It is confusing otherwise. Write to the moderators asking for help consolidating the threads.
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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