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Sep 19, 2006, 05:49 PM
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He has continued to call me, and never asks me out, just wants to come over to my new house. I know he's hot and heavy on Match.com, and obviously extending himself with dinners and dates in that venue, yet with me, he hasn't done anything but call and want to come over. What am I ...a dead fish to be stepped on.? Last night, I let him know in no uncertain terms I'm not interested. This is sad, because we were good friends in high school, and I had hoped we would have some things in common. NOT!
Anyway, I'm glad I did this, and haven't even had an afterthought about what I said to him. Patty |
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Sep 19, 2006, 06:54 PM
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Were YOU looking for some thing more? - where as he was happy being a FREIND?
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Sep 19, 2006, 07:02 PM
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Rhapsody..HE is looking for SEX! I would be happy with a friend.
Love Patty |
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Sep 19, 2006, 08:00 PM
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I'm not sexist in any way, (sorry if I offend anyone that believe men are above "labels") ... -- I hold men to the same standards as women, in my opinion-- he is acting like a sl**.
I wonder if his wife knows he's been going on dates? Wonder if she even cares?? Well Patty I'm glad you did what you did too!!  I'm sorry he couldn't have been a friend to you-- you are very worth it!  mandy |
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Sep 19, 2006, 11:13 PM
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OK - I see................ well, then give him the boot.
And - ooops I did not know he was married, kick him one or twice for me plz.  LoVe, Rhapsody - 
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Sep 20, 2006, 04:26 PM
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NO, Mandy and Rhap, this is an old high school friend who lives nearby and who recently divorced, about a year ago. We were good friends, though not romantic in high school. We had a folk band together and went on lots of church young people trips, etc. I guess he is in that post-divorce wild phase, which I actually never experienced, though I did date a lot after my divorce. Now, having been single for almost 9 years, I have no desire to put myself "out there" (Seinfeld!).
Patty |
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Sep 20, 2006, 05:16 PM
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seeker you have given me good advice with my issues,
i would just like to say if men think they can just get sex with no emotional ties they will,as rhapsody said he is a male sl*g and if can treat women this way then he is not worth the time and effort of your thoughts,anyhow i seem to think you are NOT the push over type that he thinks you are !!!!! keep smiling BLUE
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Sep 20, 2006, 05:21 PM
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Thanks, Blue...you're a sweetie.
Please keep all this in mind as you deal with your own situation. Love Patty |
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Sep 20, 2006, 07:04 PM
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Oops!!! sorry bout the mix-up Patty!
 I thought you were talking about that other guy.... the one where his wife was going away for a while.a couple parts of my post though-- about you "rocking" and being great friend quality-- that was not a mix-up! Hope you have a great evening! mandy |
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Sep 22, 2006, 08:51 AM
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I agree give him the boot out the door, remember everyone he sleeps with inadvertenatly (sp) you sleep with
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Sep 22, 2006, 04:18 PM
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OMG, mama...isn't that the truth!
 Love, Patty |
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#12
Sep 23, 2006, 04:00 PM
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thankyou
feeling better already keep smiling
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