[Slimlady1937]

My boyfriend and I been arguing almost every day for the past few months. It's so stressful. Yesterday I asked him how he feels about me and he answered he doesn't know how to feel because we've been arguing so much lately, he doesn't trust me and thinks I'm cheating. Even though if I am not at his house I'm in mine. I don't go out or talk to anyone so he wouldn't think I'm doing anything. He said how can I expect him to love me if we argue everyday. It makes sense. It hurt me to hear that cuz I've done so much for him, someone who doesn't love me anymore. I don't wanna break up with him we've been through so much just to be together and it's so sad that it's not working out. But I still have some hope that we can work it out. I wanna change myself and stop the arguments. But is it possible that he'll start loving me again?

[barx]

First, don't be fooled... it takes TWO people to argue. Does he not think that he plays a role in that? He also sounds either guilty or insecure by being so suspicious of you, unless you've given him reason to be. That's my two cents...

I don't know how long you guys have been together, but trust me, you don't want to make it work with someone who can't do any self reflection to see their part in the arguments. I still love my husband even when we argue.

[roads]

I've never heard of a guy hanging around to work a situation out. He blames you, sees you as the source of the problems in the relationship--why wouldn't he just to on to someone who's less trouble?

Take barx's advice ... don't be fooled. He's as responsible as anyone if the relationship needs work. If he's not ready to acknowledge that, then he's not going to work on it either. Don't waste your time when he's going to walk away in the end ... no matter what you do.

Roadie

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by Slimlady1937

My boyfriend and I been arguing almost every day for the past few months. It's so stressful. Yesterday I asked him how he feels about me and he answered he doesn't know how to feel because we've been arguing so much lately, he doesn't trust me and thinks I'm cheating. Even though if I am not at his house I'm in mine. I don't go out or talk to anyone so he wouldn't think I'm doing anything. He said how can I expect him to love me if we argue everyday. It makes sense. It hurt me to hear that cuz I've done so much for him, someone who doesn't love me anymore. I don't wanna break up with him we've been through so much just to be together and it's so sad that it's not working out. But I still have some hope that we can work it out. I wanna change myself and stop the arguments. But is it possible that he'll start loving me again?

Why are you staying with a person who is making false accusations of you?