[kala83]

so I have two friends that I am sexually involved with right now. They try to make me out to be the only one that feel in love with anyone in the situation and I know its a lie cause any time I show interest in someone other then them they go from being nice and supportive to, this guy is gonna be wrong for you.

well just last night I spent some time with the both of them. And I had sex with the guy, I had been having a really hard week and the extra time I spent with him before I came home made me feel good. He is not a very emotional person so needless to say all this went right over his head.

I woke up and spent the day with the girl and us hanging out and I mention to her that me and him had sex. and mention that it put me in a good mood, we go about the rest of the day just fine hanging out having fun with each other like we always do.

I go out later tonight to do archery and ask if they would like to come out and watch and I get told that the girl is all pissy and jealous.

why was this never mentioned to me before like hours ago? why did it come up now?

why is it that she has told me about when they have sex and I have never gotten mad at her but she is with me now?

we all know what the relationship between all three of us is and where it stands but I wonder just how honest all of us is really being about things.

[HeartTornOut]

Something tells me that she doesn't understand the cycle here. She wants more out of this whole threesome than she's getting. Sounds like she agreed to it to get close to him, but now she wants him for herself...or she wants more of him than you get to make herself feel more important - it's could be a power thing. From where I sit, I only see three options here... sit the both of them down and talk it out and try to work it out, just ignore it and put up with it (which i wouldn't recommend choosing), or leaving the relationship. Hope this helps, good luck!

[kala83]

I think I am just going to be more nit picky about telling really anyone about anything I do as far as sexually goes from here on out.

I would love sit them down and talk to them the issue is they will bring up the "we are not dating and we not going to date were only sexual" which I personally think both of them are lying to them selves and to me that there are deeper feelings then that.
But I can't just make them say that they have to do it on their own so its sort of a losing battle.

I am dating other people and keeping my options open maybe some day someone will realize just how much they have been lying. We all really care for each other but omg they get on mine and theirs nerves.