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Old Aug 03, 2013, 03:18 PM
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Hi i am new to this forum.. I joined this forum because my boyfriend has adhd. I came to get support, understanding, and advice about adhd. We been off on and for 4 years and I love him and want this to work. Any ideas on how i can bring it up that our relationship is suffering because of adhd. I don't completely blame him but i want to bring it up in a loving way not in a parent child way i want him to know i love him and im willing to work with this out. Im just worried how do i approach it any ideas?

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Old Aug 04, 2013, 08:04 AM
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Welcome, I'm sorry your relationship is struggling. For more specific relationship advice, you can post in the relationship forum.
As for bringing it up to him, has he been officially diagnosed?
If not, it might be better not to even mention ADHD, just mention the specific symptoms that are hurting your relationship. Make sure you keep it brief, but also explain that some of the behaviors are not acceptable and need to change.
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Old Aug 04, 2013, 11:10 AM
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Yes Samantha Green he has been diagnosed and thats what i planned to do make it short and sweet but i just realized that our anniversary is this month as well lol
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Old Aug 04, 2013, 01:36 PM
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welcome!

Any specific issues that you are having problems with?
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Old Aug 04, 2013, 07:14 PM
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First off welcome to PC. I do not know much about relationships. But I will try and provide help if I can from the male perspective for you having add myself.
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Old Aug 06, 2013, 02:09 PM
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Ah, yes, here you are. Who has any experience being in a relationship with someone with ADHD? Miss Princess is seeking some advice!
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Old Aug 09, 2013, 05:55 AM
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Can you give us some examples, Miss P, of how his ADHD is affecting your relationship?
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