Complicated

My husband and I have been married 6 yrs but together 10 yrs. He has depression, anxiety and ptsd. He constently accuses me of cheating. Anything I do or say leads.to the same argument. I have depression issues that came about in my teens. You can say its a bad mix. It has gotten worse, especially after our kids. I have less time for him and no time for myself. Its stressful for us and the kids. I just cant stand it anymore. There is no communication cause whats the point. Realistically we cant afford to seperate and honestly I dont want to. I want it to workout. He is also not a person to let things go. I am afraid he will be obsessive, emotionally and physically abusive to me and our kids. He has made comments. So do you stay and get through it or leave and take your chances?

Marriage counseling? Even if you can't afford to go, you could try for a local church...of course it'll be spiritual base but the end result will be the same.