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Oct 07, 2006, 08:05 PM
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i have this friend who i believe i will marry one day but now we are best friends to the point where he considers me to be one of the guys......... how do you get a friendship to become more when and how does it move from one to the other i know he likes me but would never say anything for the same fears i have i don't do very well in communicating about these things so im not sure what i should do
anyone have any ideas?
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Oct 08, 2006, 05:55 PM
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What are your fears? If you tell him, he might say no, but it will blow over if you are good friends...
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Oct 08, 2006, 06:41 PM
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thats true! i have many fears in general but the one with this guy is that if we do start dating and it doesn't work out it may destroy the friendship so as in the old question do you take the chance or just leave it as having a really good friend
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Oct 09, 2006, 05:57 AM
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If you guys are really good friends then your friendship should survive this...
You could tell him that he is a really good friend and that you value his friendship very much and wouldn't want to do anything to hurt that... But that you like him and would like to date him if he would be interested... And if he isn't then you can stay being really good friends... But maybe... He would like to do that. |
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Oct 09, 2006, 09:35 AM
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I had the same happen to me with my best friend. We dated, fought a lot and split up, angry for a month, friends again, dated again, fought again... we have been on that rolercoaster so long, until we realized we were meant to be friends!
So you can definately remain friends, it's just natural in a guy girl friendship to go through it, and to try it and it either works or fails... Just don't complicated by sleeping together, that's a whole different story...
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Oct 09, 2006, 08:39 PM
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thanks guys that helps !
i know i have his mother and the grooup we belong to that we should get married.....lol talk about uncomfortable conversation
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