[punani6hdt]

I get angry and then depressed about not being able to find a partner for sex and all the stuff you have to go through to try to get sex . eg approach women, get nervous, rejections, humiliation, frustration etc etc

If you have a few women already its easier to approach more women and be rejected because you know you wont be going home empty handed. Whereas if you dont have any women, rejections cause me more anger because you go home with nothing even though youve tried repeatedly.

The problem with sex is its selfish. women dont give a lot of men a chance. They are very selective. As a consequence, people like me end up with no sex.
I have no power over this situation. So what is the answer? Where is the hope for people like me? Im tired of being told lies that its my fault or that ''I will find someone someday''.

[manwithnofriends]

...just don't do it. You know it's not going to work so why bother?

[wisedude]

Well in my experience, most women are not after men who want them just to have sex with them.

I mean it sounds like that is all you want from a woman or is there more that you want than that?

[punani6hdt]

Originally Posted by wisedude

Well in my experience, most women are not after men who want them just to have sex with them.

I mean it sounds like that is all you want from a woman or is there more that you want than that?

In case you hadn't noticed most young men are just after sex from women.

[ptangptang]

The Government should legalise brothels and sex should be available on the NHS. Society is in such crisis that they ( really we) should think 'outside the box' on all sorts of issues. But then homosexuality was criminalised until er 1967 ( i think) so what chance is there for any common sense thinking.

[punani6hdt]

Originally Posted by ptangptang

The Government should legalise brothels and sex should be available on the NHS. Society is in such crisis that they ( really we) should think 'outside the box' on all sorts of issues. But then homosexuality was criminalised until er 1967 ( i think) so what chance is there for any common sense thinking.

why brothels? Escorts are legal arent they? and even if they aren't, why does it matter? It doesnt stop people using them

Or maybe try showing respect to the women you are trying to meet. I hear that they really are attracted to people that respect them, and treat them like human beings.

[gayleggg]

Originally Posted by punani6hdt

I get angry and then depressed about not being able to find a partner for sex and all the stuff you have to go through to try to get sex . eg approach women, get nervous, rejections, humiliation, frustration etc etc

If you have a few women already its easier to approach more women and be rejected because you know you wont be going home empty handed. Whereas if you dont have any women, rejections cause me more anger because you go home with nothing even though youve tried repeatedly.

The problem with sex is its selfish. women dont give a lot of men a chance. They are very selective. As a consequence, people like me end up with no sex.
I have no power over this situation. So what is the answer? Where is the hope for people like me? Im tired of being told lies that its my fault or that ''I will find someone someday''.

Women don't want to go out with guys like you is because they know all you want is sex. I find your post to be repulsive. The thought that you want to have women as backups for sex it truly worst thing I have run across.

You are a very selfish man who will be alone all his life unless he learns to treat women with respect. We are not put here to service you. You start looking at what is wrong with you before you start blaming women.

[punani6hdt]

Originally Posted by gayleggg

Women don't want to go out with guys like you is because they know all you want is sex. I find your post to be repulsive. The thought that you want to have women as backups for sex it truly worst thing I have run across.

You are a very selfish man who will be alone all his life unless he learns to treat women with respect. We are not put here to service you. You start looking at what is wrong with you before you start blaming women.

considering you are on this forum you obviously have plenty of problems yourself so maybe you are the one who should look at whats wrong with you before trying to give advice.

[punani6hdt]

Originally Posted by gayleggg

Women don't want to go out with guys like you is because they know all you want is sex. I find your post to be repulsive. The thought that you want to have women as backups for sex it truly worst thing I have run across.

You are a very selfish man who will be alone all his life unless he learns to treat women with respect. We are not put here to service you. You start looking at what is wrong with you before you start blaming women.

and there are women who want nothing more than sex too. Just because you dont want anything more than sex doesnt mean you dont respect them. Its called friends with benefits

[manwithnofriends]

Originally Posted by punani6hdt

considering you are on this forum you obviously have plenty of problems yourself so maybe you are the one who should look at whats wrong with you before trying to give advice.

lol by your logic this site therefore shouldn't exist and none of us should be entitled to a pdoc or therapist?

[NWgirl2013]

Originally Posted by punani6hdt

and there are women who want nothing more than sex too. Just because you dont want anything more than sex doesnt mean you dont respect them. Its called friends with benefits

Okay,so if this is your logic, FWB is acceptable to you, why have you none of these either? Can't be a benefit without the friend part. Maybe making friends is the problem. You have to be friend-worthy for this.
If you can't even get a "pity-f***" then, maybe it's time to look at you...? This site might be exactly what you need to find out what the problem really is. Perhaps...

[punani6hdt]

Originally Posted by NWgirl2013

Okay,so if this is your logic, FWB is acceptable to you, why have you none of these either? Can't be a benefit without the friend part. Maybe making friends is the problem. You have to be friend-worthy for this.
If you can't even get a "pity-f***" then, maybe it's time to look at you...? This site might be exactly what you need to find out what the problem really is. Perhaps...

I dont accept your logic that just because you cant find friends there must be something wrong with you. If you dont have anything in common, does that mean there is something wrong with me that needs fixing? I dont believe your nonsense.

[Andysmom]

Originally Posted by punani6hdt

I get angry and then depressed about not being able to find a partner for sex and all the stuff you have to go through to try to get sex . eg approach women, get nervous, rejections, humiliation, frustration etc etc

If you have a few women already its easier to approach more women and be rejected because you know you wont be going home empty handed. Whereas if you dont have any women, rejections cause me more anger because you go home with nothing even though youve tried repeatedly.

The problem with sex is its selfish. women dont give a lot of men a chance. They are very selective. As a consequence, people like me end up with no sex.
I have no power over this situation. So what is the answer? Where is the hope for people like me? Im tired of being told lies that its my fault or that ''I will find someone someday''.

Sex is selfish? Maybe for you and maybe that's your problem. Cos you definitely have a problem.

[healingme4me]

Originally Posted by punani6hdt

I have no power over this situation. So what is the answer? Where is the hope for people like me? .

Well, if you have a large enough bankroll, perhaps, you can be surrounded by several women 'friends', and then they won't mind if you seek out a larger circle of 'go-to's' after a not so successful night out?

Then again, with that type of a flashy wallet, doubtful, you'll be rejected, so to speak.

Hope you find the life you seek.

[sabby]

Because this thread has become more attacking of one another than posting supportively, this thread will now be closed.