Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Nov 02, 2013, 08:51 AM
sonnenschein sonnenschein is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2011
Posts: 36
Just interested to hear your guys' opinion… I'm a (straight) girl with a close male friend. We ended up cuddling for over an hour on a couch even though we usually just hug goodbye. He ended up half on top of me, our legs were intertwined… But as far as I know he doesn't date for religious reasons and I don't remember him showing interest in me beyond friendship. Was he just looking for comfort after a rough week or something more? (Which I would totally be on board with, but I'm afraid to make a move because we spend a lot of time alone together studying which could get very awkward)
__________________
~~I've seen better days, but oh well…~~

advertisement
  #2  
Old Nov 02, 2013, 09:13 AM
0w6c379's Avatar
0w6c379 0w6c379 is offline
Account Suspended
 
Member Since: Aug 2012
Location: in a nightmare
Posts: 888
I don't know that he was "looking" for anything more than comfort at the time, but being that close to one another for over an hour....well....things happen. You may both find that you have "those" feelings for each other. Sometimes you just fall into a relationship, unplanned. You may not have to make a move at all, it may just evolve on it's own.
  #3  
Old Nov 02, 2013, 09:27 AM
avlady avlady is offline
Wise Elder
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Jan 2013
Location: angola ny
Posts: 9,803
You probably have feelings for each other whether expressed or not, spending alot of time together could raise deeper feelings for each other too. maybe he really likes you,alot, and you will have to see where it goes from here. Like Michelle25 said it may just evolve on its own.
  #4  
Old Nov 02, 2013, 10:18 AM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
I'm agreeing about the evolving aspect. Cuddling is intimate.
Reply
Views: 1330

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 10:20 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.