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We did play 11 hours of games together. Just me and her so.. hey yeah I have no complaints XD
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I like your plan. Just sit back, relax, and enjoy her company right now. Over time, I think both of you will know whether or not to say anything or take things further. Have fun! Oh, and maybe doing some research on fun things to do in Japan....
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My motto: the best things happen when you're not looking for them.
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I know this principle and I agree.
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I would be careful not to let myself be seriously involved in online affair ,which may be just casual for her,but definitely more meaningful to me,until I would be able to really see her.
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Why don't you give her some on-line compliments if you're interested and see how she responds?
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But I don't want to take anything too serioiusly too fast, IRL or online. Been there, done that. |
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As far as the flirting thing....about ...oh lord don't even remember the quoted post but, she as much as ran over you with the flirtation-stationwagon. I could understand if she was being subtle that you might be confused, but she seems very far removed from ambiguity. That's not a bad thing...but it is a warning. Most women don't put it ALL out there...first up on the game or even second...or third for that matter. We try to maintain a bit of 'subtle' if only to preserve our need to..well...self-preserve. That said, hey...if you feel it and she feels it, have at it. But you might look closer to home. You might find what you're looking for...isn't necessarily thousands of miles away. Distance is often safer for the heart....but helps not, always, the soul. Good luck, and be well. ![]() |
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No matter, how skilled one is, with written, expressions, face to face, is where you truly get the full mental read, of a person, i.e., body language. If, this ldr,, isn't something, that has future potential, don't close the door,on other possibilities, not necessarily saying, stay on market, am saying don't close the door, so to speak, not until, you know for certain, is my advice. Only guarantee, to know, she's as interested, have 'the talk', and meet. Hope that helps/adds to conversation. Sent from my LG-MS910 using Tapatalk 2 |
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Kathy and healinme4me expressed exactly my concerns. We have at times difficulty reading people face to face,online -gives too much freedom for make up personality,it is hard to judge. I am not saying you can not meet online,apparently you did it successfully in the past,but you met her after long distance so you could judge her responses. Why not Skype?,easier to see,judge and is free,no obligations.
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There is still something, to be said, for, meeting, then continuing ldr, until timing works out. If serious, someone moves...that's an important 'talk'. Sent from my LG-MS910 using Tapatalk 2 |
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Of course she was a bit obvious the other night. She left to go take a shower. When she got back I asked "all squeaky clean now?" And she replied, "yep! wanna touuuuuuccch?" I had no idea what to say to that.. and just replied "o.O" and she said "my........arm. >.> Don't let it go to your head." That, is kind of overt huh? Later I was kidding around about her being gone cus she didn't feel well. She said she was back and said something to the effect of asking if i was too tired... I said to her "you missed me huh..." (kidding of course) and she said "yep. A Lot D8!" I'll keep you posted if anyone's interested. If anything it's all fun. As to your question about me seeing her. yes I have. I have both her facebook accounts linked to mine, I have many pics she's sent of herself to me (I was trying to draw her at one point). And yes. She's JUS' GAWJUS!! |
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"As to your question about me seeing her. yes I have. I have both her facebook accounts linked to mine, I have many pics she's sent of herself to me (I was trying to draw her at one point). And yes. She's JUS' GAWJUS!"
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....watch her body language.....look for mirroring.......flicking her hair......smiling and making lots of eye contact.......just go for it ....if you like her ......ask her out for coffee......if it goes well ask her out for dinner.....you won't know unless you ask her .......lots of luck....x
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I sometimes exaggerate when I chat online or play PC games, like emoticons and exclamation marks. Sometimes I would give the reaction people expect. (I come off as 'dull' IRL I think, but that's just me. I used to play online a lot (loved it). Personally I don't pursue r/s online because of past experience but esp because I'm married. But I would start with "I really like you", I remember I used to spend a llot of time online just to see him on. Srry can't really help that was a long time ago.
When I'm with a guy in person, (personally) and if I am interested, I would freeze in place for a few seconds, awkward (now I give that "I'm waiting!" face) and wait for him to invite me and say 'do you want to walk to class with me?' if he's looking away towards the door, or already making his first step in that direction... I let him go. If I really wasn't into him, I would say "Well I got something to do" |
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I agree with Trippin, I think from the conversations you mentioned, there is definately some form of interest!
From personal experience, i like to uplift the person whom i have found interesting and fun to be around. We like to talk to others as we want to be treated, and if there are certain words used such as 'special' 'important' etc and spoken in a context of the time you spend together, chances are she is interested. Hmm, sorry if i repeated myself :/ hope you found this useful! All the best in your endeavours! ![]() |
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