[JoharS]

Hey everyone,

I signed up at your forum because I need some help. I do hope I am at the right place.
The thing is that I go to bars from time to time. At some times there is a woman I see that I like.

If I finaly have the guts to step up to her I do have fun and all, but the thing is that I get some competition then. Some other guys who like to show off just interupts me and takes all the attention of her. This happens like half of the time.

Is it something I should allow and just walk away? How do you guys deal with it?
And do you woman like it when a more muscular man starts talking to you?

[spondiferous]

Hey Johar. I can't speak for other women, but to me, being muscular has nothing to do with whether or not a guy gets my attention. It's more about conversation and chemistry. If you are having a conversation worth sticking around and finishing, then I say stick around and finish it. I would calmly and evenly redirect the conversation back to you and let the other guy know that he interrupted you. If he persists and you can tell that he's going to be difficult then you may just want to back off and approach her another time, because honestly, if the guy's going to be an *** then you probably won't have any luck trying to get your point across. Hope this helps.

[lightinthesky]

I agree, for women "visual" I mean what we see isn't as important as it is for men. It really is more about who you are and a "flink" chemistry. Although worth mentioning that we like men who are strong emotionally too, who wouldn't be lost in the situation where some other guy is interrupting him! You gotta be confident, nobody wants to be with a man who is weak inside.

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[NWgirl2013]

I wouldn't want to be standing there while two guys get into a pissing contest over my attention.
So, if I was said girl enjoying the conversation with you, I would hope that you would ask me to go to a table, away from the other guy, so we could continue, get fresh drinks, relax.

Show some class, show a protective nature. Don't leave her to fend for herself if you don't have to. A woman loves to know you will be the man, which is diplomatic, charming, and in charge.
Best wishes and good luck!