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So I had a very strange day yesterday. I'll try to keep it short but it is kinda complicated. My boyfriend came back from seeing his therapist and apparently had talked about some difficult subjects. When he came home he said some really hurtful things. He has trouble with anger and this has happened a couple times. I am very sensitive to anger because of my history of physical abuse in my family. I think this causes me to distance myself from him. When he said those things I left the house and stayed with a friend. Then her neighbor, another friend of mine, texted me saying he was suicidal and me and my boyfriend came over immediately and talked him out of it and hes been staying at our house. Me and my boyfriend have not talked about our problems yet and I don't think we have the energy to after yesterday. I remember getting the flight response once my boyfriend said this to me. I know it is not okay for him to say hurtful things to me. I know he is sorry and I love him. I wanted so badly to leave him when he hurt my feelings. Is this because I am overly sensitive to these things because of my family history? or is this a healthy response?