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Old Nov 30, 2013, 12:54 PM
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My partner and I live in the same room. Over the past few days, we have started not to acknowledge each others presence. We don't talk. We've stopped caring about what each other does. We're too proud to initiate addressing the issue. Have we broken up already?

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Old Nov 30, 2013, 02:47 PM
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You wouldn't know unless you talk to her. If this is too hard, maybe writing a letter would help. Either way, before initiating the conversation, make sure you organize your thoughts so you can approach the discussion with a game plan of how the conversation should go. Hope you find resolution.

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Old Nov 30, 2013, 11:22 PM
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Without actually having that talk, it wouldn't be official. Sounds like the two of you, may have had one heck of an argument.
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Old Dec 01, 2013, 12:15 AM
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I'm going through the same thing, literally. I pretty much thought after the last time we did talk, he would get that we are broken up. It doesn't seem so. I can't tell if he doesn't think we are or if he is just ignoring me while he looks for somewhere else to live.
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Old Dec 13, 2013, 05:33 AM
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Thanks for the comment, you guys. We have actually separated already. We didn't have to talk about it. I just left and looked for a place of my own. We still see each other at work, but we both know we don't need to acknowledge each other anymore. It's actually nice having your own single life back. Although it is lonely, but it's better than staying in a relationship that you're not happy about.
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Old Dec 14, 2013, 12:35 AM
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Just be prepared for the worst. If I were you, you can consider it to your own discretion.

If nothing happens over 1 week, without any conversation. Move on, even you have not find someone new.
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