Finally we've been in contact with the doc again... Nothing good!!!!

Another blow to my stomach! No meds for my son! They rather see him hurting us and maybe ending up killing his own sister.

I went so frustrated and tried to make the doc see sense... He just wouldn't listen.

I feel beaten to the ground. But I'll not give up! I'll contact a specialist in another part of our country instead. It's soooo draining when you do everything in your power to make people see what needs to be done... and they just don't get it.
I'm so sad... down... anxious now... We really thought this doc understood the situation and had the right knowledge about this.


This day isn't a good day at all! It took 45 minutes to get my son out to the support family's car. He was so anxious and angry... kicking and screaming... calling the mother of the support family not so pleasant names. He hit me with his fist right at my larynx. I had to think think think of something to distract him.... finally I did. He calmed down just a little bit and we had to carry him out to the car. It feels just horrible doing this to him... knowing that we have to... If we give in now... he'll get even worse. When he gets to the support family's house he's feeling better and calm again... That we know... but he can't understand and remember that from this time until the next time.
We had a nice time this morning together. He's so sweet when he's sweet. I just wish I got to see it more often!

I feel so selfish writing about my problems now AGAIN. I wish I could be more supportive to you out here.

I sure would love to get a hug or two today... if it's ok.

sorry that they dont see that he needs help!!! dont give up ok?


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I'm sorry to hear that ggggrrrr

You aren't selfish hon, please hang in there and don't give up! (((((((((((( Nina )))))))))))))

You are so courageous Poetry lover!!

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

Oh Poetrylover,

Hon, I'm so sorry your family has to go through this. I'm sorry the doctor doesn't understand. I am sending many hugs to you and hope tomorrow will be a brighter day.

Love,
Linda

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Big hugs and prayers for your family.

((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) so sorry to hear that...Hope the next doc is smarter!!

im sorry your doc isnt helping with meds for your son i hope you manage to find someone to give you a second opinion, you ask anytime for a hug you deserve one i wish we could be of more help as you have been to us other the last few weeks,
i hope you get all your answers soon

(((((((((((nina))))))))))))) those doctors are a pain in the *** , i bet if he/she were in your shoes they would put their son/daughter on meds. i hope you get some help from someone.
you are in our thoughts daily
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Dearheart, Never give up. You are your son's biggest advocate. Please start to document all minor and major occurences that happen within your family and others. I truly hope nothing severe really does happen but you will have documents on the events. You are a lot stonger than you know. I am here for you like all of your friends who truly believe in you and love you. We are many......We are here to support you...you know your son better than we do. But you can lean on us..... Take good care. Altheia

i know that this was a big disappointment.......take a beep breath and plow on!

Poetry, I know as a teacher of children who are mainstreamed into the regular classrooms that medications can make a miraculous difference. I had a student last year whom I couldn't manage, but he was absent for a while, and now, on medication, he is a model student. I even told him what a pleasure it was to have him in my class this year. I hope your son can get the meds he needs.
Love,
Patty

Poetrylover, I'm sorry that you are getting the support you need with your son. I can't recall any his issues.... nor what all you have tried...so forgive me if ..I don't mean to offend.

Have you had him evaluated for allergies and such? An ear nose and throat guy can also determine if he has any inner/middle ear problems... these things can cause real behavioral problems and are often overlooked. Food allergies, molds, etc can even cause heart attacks and deafness...as well as anxiety and depression and rage.

Ok, sorry if I'm out of the loop

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I wish I had words of wisdom for you. It sounds really difficult. I'm sorry.

Thinking of you and your family.

gg

Thank you all for caring!

(_Sky... I've written about my son several times in here. I've written about what's going on with him. My son has got a diagnoses- Aspergers disorder. It's not other health issues that's causing this. As a person having OCD... I'm quite careful when it comes to my kids health. We've been through a lot of examinations with him.)

anybody have a camcorder to film the litle guy going off? One picture is worth a thousand words, to show the ignorant doctor? Pretty scarey stuff to get popped in the larynx...... is a second doctor possible?

I've filmed him with a digitalcam. I will do it again at a time when he's REALLY angry and frustrated. We've seen two docs already about meds. I mailed another one yesterday and got a short message in return, telling that she couldn't help us...
We'll have to come up with some new ideas.
He's been a bit calmer for a couple of days... so that's been wonderful. We have to live for the little moments.

Thank you for your suggestions, hillbunnyb! Glad that you reminded me about filming him... You kind of tend to forget about things, in the middle of this mess.

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