[HockingPastryChef]

The oddest thing is that I'm not sure what to do or say to him now after he had shoved me into a cupboard.

Last night my mom and I were making cookies I told him no and he kept going for them. Then I grabbed the rack so he wouldn't grab them, they flipped and he still was going for them I said no again and then grabbed his arm saying don't grab them he shoved me into the cupboard and my mom started yelling at him. My mom didn't need to yell at him and which he yelled back say that us as the family was his fault for his anger. I told him no, your own anger is from yourself internally. If you have issues it would help to discuss. He said back yeah I do not discuss, that isn't me. And then he walked back to his room and had been in there the rest of the night. I didn't like my mom yelling at him either; she doesn't realize she places blame on people. She blamed him for knocking the cookies off and I told her no. I get frustrated because my family behaves this way. I need to speak to my mom about hers too.

Now I'm with him today alone until I leave to a Christmas party. I don't think I will mention anything about it to see if he says anything. I don't think he will apologize knowing him. He noticed what he had done though because the outer covering of a light switch broke too and he looked at it and said man and then that was when he walked back to his room.

I can apologize on my part of the situation too. I find this ridiculous over a cookie.

I do plan to move out when I get my jobs settled because I maybe getting a new job.

[curley]

Wow Hocking, really dont know what to say except moving out would probably be your best bet. If yelling is the way your family has handled things its kinda difficult to get them to change now. Good Luck

[unaluna]

I realize its too late now, but why couldnt your brother have some cookies? Were you making them for someone else? Even so, the smell of cookies baking would drive anyone crazy. You might be used to it because its your job, but idk. Seems to me like he was just acting human. Maybe he could have been more polite, but why the fight?

[HockingPastryChef]

Originally Posted by hankster

I realize its too late now, but why couldnt your brother have some cookies? Were you making them for someone else? Even so, the smell of cookies baking would drive anyone crazy. You might be used to it because its your job, but idk. Seems to me like he was just acting human. Maybe he could have been more polite, but why the fight?

Yes, this is ridiculous over a cookie. And I did make it sound as though I was hurting him. I just grabbed to stop him, didn't want to hurt him at all.

We are saving them to give to others as a gift for Christmas. We have a couple other cookies baked up in the house too that we are sharing due to making double batches of them.

I'm just going to let this situation go. I'm sure he knows what he had done. He is completely fine today. If it occurs again that is when I will speak up to him a lone about what he has done in the past, I do not let violence happen around me.