[countrygirl96]

I had a boyfriend of 2 years and we broke up a year and a half ago and I was major depressed about the situation. I dated 2 different guys since then. The first guy didn't work out but the second guy I am with now and I really do think I have found love again. There's just one problem...we've been dating for 3 months now and we are currently on a break. I know being love within 3 months sounds a little crazy but I really feel like I do. But we were agreeing to work on some things and we had sexual intercourse that night and he knows how much giving myself up to someone means to me. The next morning I wake up to his phone going off from a text with the name "My Girl" with a bunch of hearts and kiss faces by it. He keeps telling me he's sorry and loves me, I just am so lost. I honestly don't know what to do. I can't eat or sleep right over this, all my friends tell me to leave him but I just can't. I love him more than words can explain, I just need some honest opinions please? What should I do?

[Bill3]

When he says that he is sorry: what does he mean? What is he sorry about?

[Truth in Ruin]

I'm sorry this has happened to you. You must be really hurt. I would set-up some boundaries if you want to stay with him. I would tell him flat-out: if I can't be the only woman in your life, then I don't want to be in yours.

I hope everything works-out for you. I wish you the best of luck!

[Buddy17]

it sounds difficult to understand.. why he asked sorry? what he saying now?

[Ash89]

Originally Posted by Truth in Ruin

I'm sorry this has happened to you. You must be really hurt. I would set-up some boundaries if you want to stay with him. I would tell him flat-out: if I can't be the only woman in your life, then I don't want to be in yours.

This. I know it might be difficult but no matter how much you love him and want to be loved, it does not change what's going on. He either has a girl on the side or you are his girl on the side. Why would someone else be 'my girl' in his phone? He's a straight up player, I know the type well. You deserve more.

I'm sorry it hurts, but it's best to handle it now before things become more serious. Best of luck to you. Hugs.

There are no two ways about this. He's playing a game with you and possibly the other girl as in she knows nothing about you either. He's not even worth wasting a single tear on.

To help you sort something out, you are very likely not in love with him, but then I don't necessarily believe in love in that way. It's called infatuation and that's a motivator to being with someone and loving them (as in the action) but remember, love itself is not the emotion, the stomach in knots, the sweaty hands, and feelings. What you do with it is love.

but this guy is not worth your devotion and/or comitment that comes with loving him. He's not commiting to one girl, why should you even give you heart and caring to him?

Run fast and far from this one.