[Broncos38]

Her mom doesn't want to help pay for her daughter wedding. But her dad is willing to help out. And my fiancee's mother is hoarding money from my fiancee and her mother is expecting to pay her back just for helping her. Her mother doesn't want her to move out, live together with me. And to live on her own. What is my fiancee supposed to do? I'm putting on too miles on my car. We live opposite ends of the county. We both get SS. I work two part time jobs. My fiancee doesn't work cause of epilepsy. No major seizures since her surgery back in 2009 and diet for two years.

I understand how frustrating and exasperating this is for you and your fiance ... But, until you decide to NOT allow this toxic woman to remain a part of your life, she will always cause you heartache and pain.

It's scary to take that first leap, not knowing how or where you'll land, or if you can make it on your own without them ... It took me 33.5 years to do it, and I was plagued with all kinds of fear and doubt too. And, guess what? ... It's 20 years later and I'm still here and doing just fine without them.

Trust me on this ... When the pain of it all becomes greater than the fear of it all, you too will be able to make that decision and get yourself free.

[Broncos38]

Originally Posted by Pfrog

I understand how frustrating and exasperating this is for you and your fiance ... But, until you decide to NOT allow this toxic woman to remain a part of your life, she will always cause you heartache and pain.

It's scary to take that first leap, not knowing how or where you'll land, or if you can make it on your own without them ... It took me 33.5 years to do it, and I was plagued with all kinds of fear and doubt too. And, guess what? ... It's 20 years later and I'm still here and doing just fine without them.

Trust me on this ... When the pain of it all becomes greater than the fear of it all, you too will be able to make that decision and get yourself free.

We have a advocate coming to fix things actually on Monday.

That is awesome, Broncos38 ...

I really would love to see you and your fiance free of the pain, anxiety and worry this woman is causing y'all ... To see you standing on your on two feet ... Never having to rely on her for anything ever again.