[complex21]

So I recently broke up with my now ex fiance. I broke up with him because in the last 3 months i found out that pretty much 90% of the things he told me about his personal life were a flat out lie. Things like where he lived, financial situation and even his marriage. I stayed with him for 3 months trying to work through the hurt and learn to forgive him but i just couldnt it hurt too bad and i no longer loved myself because i was investing so much into still loving and liking him. Well last night he told me he wish we never met and that it was a waste of time and berated me about the sacrifices he made, the risk he took the things he did for me ect it made me feel like crap and feel like i did the wrong thing by leaving and like i destroyed us. Now i cant tell what i think of the situation and im doing all i can to stay afloat emotionally.

[Mid-Life-Larry]

Don't forget what you yourself said in the first few sentences... that HE lied about everything he is. -- Sounds like he is just turning everything around to make you out to be the 'bad guy' and also to bestow some guilt on you... don't fall for it.

[healingme4me]

I agree, with midlifelarry, sounds like he's lashing out at you, since you rejected him. Lies about where he lives, finances and marriage, that's some heavy lying on his part.