Okay so there is this one girl at my college that is very stuck up and rude. She only talks about herself and her problems, doesn't care about other people's feelings. Her ex boyfriend dumped her this past summer and she has been vindictive ever since. Well just recently he got a new girlfriend and she is now so pissed off that she went on twitter and talked bad about them, saying really nasty things. Then one of the last things she did was sent him a text thanking him for downgrading since she believes she was the best and most beautiful girlfriend ever. She also won't stop texting me even though I've made it very clear that I want nothing to do with her,Moshe does the same to other people as well. She only talks to me when she is alone or needs to talk about her problems. Last year when she dated her boyfriend, she burnt all bridges between her and other people, and now she expects them all to welcome her back into their lives as if nothing happened. I did call her out on her actions before but she just doesn't care and even admits to not caring, so I may have to block her number and tell her to not talk to me again. Is there any other way to get her to leave me alone if she still doesn't stop bothering me? I think she has real mental issues and is really a rude, terrible person since she spreads false rumors about others as well.

[eskielover]

I would think that blocking her number would be the best place to start.....if she does talk to you more than just texting.....then I would deal with it at that time.....of course, if you block her number she will probably come & talk to you about what's going on but then again, maybe she's not so bright & won't figure out that her number is blocked & that you aren't just ignoring her.

If she doesn't get the picture.....then just let her know simply & plain that you don't associate with people who talk bad about others behind their backs & she needs to go find other friends who will tolerate her behavior.

No need to get into a discussion or a debate....just the FACTS!!!!

Good luck

[healingme4me]

I agree, stick to facts. Over time, she'll probably fade away. That was very rude of her, to say that to her ex, no matter how hurt she feels about the break up!!

She sounds like an angry person, that it's just better to walk away from. Self preservation is better than being subjected to her inner anger. Can always block her, and report her vileness as harassing, online.

Originally Posted by healingme4me

I agree, stick to facts. Over time, she'll probably fade away. That was very rude of her, to say that to her ex, no matter how hurt she feels about the break up!!

She sounds like an angry person, that it's just better to walk away from. Self preservation is better than being subjected to her inner anger. Can always block her, and report her vileness as harassing, online.

Yep, she is a very angry and rude person. I just may do that, report her behavior online as harrassment.

Originally Posted by eskielover

I would think that blocking her number would be the best place to start.....if she does talk to you more than just texting.....then I would deal with it at that time.....of course, if you block her number she will probably come & talk to you about what's going on but then again, maybe she's not so bright & won't figure out that her number is blocked & that you aren't just ignoring her.

If she doesn't get the picture.....then just let her know simply & plain that you don't associate with people who talk bad about others behind their backs & she needs to go find other friends who will tolerate her behavior.

No need to get into a discussion or a debate....just the FACTS!!!!

Good luck

What you said makes sense, I will block her and tell her to stay away from me if she approaches me in person.

[danvb]

...**sigh**... I wonder where all that anger and rudeness comes from. I dunno... What a shame. What a waste. Oh well...

I wonder who she really is.

Originally Posted by danvb

...**sigh**... I wonder where all that anger and rudeness comes from. I dunno... What a shame. What a waste. Oh well...

I wonder who she really is.

I know right, she is just an angry and rude person. Not someone you want to meet.

[danvb]

Those were just my passing thoughts... I can certainly understand why you're so upset with her, but I was just pondering her story. I mean, everyone has a story... Everyone wears a mask of some sort. I know that no one is ALL bad... even though it might seem that some people are.

Dan

Originally Posted by danvb

Those were just my passing thoughts... I can certainly understand why you're so upset with her, but I was just pondering her story. I mean, everyone has a story... Everyone wears a mask of some sort. I know that no one is ALL bad... even though it might seem that some people are.

Dan

Yeah I see what you mean.

[stephyp]

She probably needs to grow up, hopefully her personality will evolve when she realises she cant treat people this way. At least you're not related!

Originally Posted by stephyp

She probably needs to grow up, hopefully her personality will evolve when she realises she cant treat people this way. At least you're not related!

Yep you're exactly right!

[nicoleflynn]

She is miserable and unhappy and instead of looking at her life and changing, she vents her anger on others. There is a book, Toxic People....

[IndieVisible]

She has personality issues and needs help

Originally Posted by nicoleflynn

She is miserable and unhappy and instead of looking at her life and changing, she vents her anger on others. There is a book, Toxic People....

Exactly, that is exactly what is happening. She is angry, rude, and unhappy.

Originally Posted by IndieVisible

She has personality issues and needs help

Totally agree, she has big time issues.

[ilikedesifem]

Despite what common society says, negative people should be helped and not scorned.

I agree she has issues, however you should ask her what they are.

if she feels bad being lonely, for instance, and having a boyfriend then show her how she can get one.

[nycgal448]

There is something definitely up w her, like Dan said "everyone wears a mask".
She could be getting abused or having probs at home??? NEVER know. It's
not real cool that she is rude and angry, but did u ever try asking her why??
Just a thought.

Originally Posted by nycgal448

There is something definitely up w her, like Dan said "everyone wears a mask".
She could be getting abused or having probs at home??? NEVER know. It's
not real cool that she is rude and angry, but did u ever try asking her why??
Just a thought.

Yes I have, she just has problems, she is just simply not a very nice person. She is self absorbed. She has a great family and did have good friends at the beginning before she showed her true colors. She even admitted to being a little paranoid as well but she is over controlling.

Originally Posted by ilikedesifem

Despite what common society says, negative people should be helped and not scorned.

I agree she has issues, however you should ask her what they are.

if she feels bad being lonely, for instance, and having a boyfriend then show her how she can get one.

Yes I have, she clearly shows signs that she just simply doesn't care about other people, only about herself.

[Betty1Boop]

I often wonder how many times someone has been somewhere writing or saying such things about me... I swear I never meant to make anyone else unhappy!

Originally Posted by Betty1Boop

I often wonder how many times someone has been somewhere writing or saying such things about me... I swear I never meant to make anyone else unhappy!

Awe I'm sure no one is talking about you, you seem like a really cool person! . I understand where you're coming from though bud.