[Doggylove11]

They would not leave me alone and keep following me, breaking boundaries (and I mean breaking them), staring at me until something blocks their view, once those creeps waved at me as I believe they are delusional and simply not getting that I hate them. I only became friends with those freaks because I felt bad for them because they did not have any friends. Then I realized that they were staring at me for the whole 25 minute bus ride, stand close to me and I mean REALLY close to me, and they will want me to tell them everything about my life what I do, what I eat, how I eat, where I live and I was only eight at that time not knowing what to do as I completely stopped talking to them and avoiding them which was hard because they always seem to find their way to get close to me.

I thought it will all blow over in a month but she (one of the stalkers who I think is gay because I am a girl) decided that after ditching her and avoiding her is still her friend and followed me the whole period to sign her shirt as I tried to hide from that freak in the bathroom. And the next year and the year after that until now as she is taking it to a whole new level now. She decided to copy whatever I do as a friend told me this as I thought my friend was lying until I realize the nut was trying to wear the same close as me, play with my hair just like me, eat the same food as me, sit in the same position as me, try to mimic the way I talk and speak to others and its to much now. I thought I was just imagining her brother stalking me (who is the other stalker when I realized) I am bumping into the loon VERY frequently and if I change routes after a while guess who coincidentally comes by and then the next day and the next day until I change again, who coincidental comes again after a week of my new route in school as I am running out of them, and who is staring at me for the whole 45 minute lunch period as I have to keep myself from blowing my first ever fuse and trust me its getting really close as I am usually a very calm person.

I am tired of them following a over the place, I am tired of having to move around all over the gym/assemble/stands/cafeteria because if I don't I find her breathing on my neck and him staring at me a feet inches away. Its embarrassing to be chased by those two creeps and cancel things because of them, its annoying to be frequently stalked and watched by them, its exhausting to deal with them everyday at school and it is frustrating and creepy to know that someone is constantly thinking and obsessing about you and trying to 'get me' when its pretty clear that is never going to happen. I used to think that everyone is important and deserves best until I met those two creeps as I have nothing kind to say about them(as what I call them in this text) and know I completely think otherwise. I finally told the teachers about but they did not do a thing to help me and I know they wont until they try to kill me if they finally realize the reality of this and by what I been reading about stalking and real stories they will do so as they are those kind of people. I tried to be reasonable as that could be all the teachers can do but I cant help being anger that there is nothing else left to do for this situation and that can do more like call their parents to tell them that their children are stalking or even bring the stalkers themselves to do something about it.

I will never be friends or anything with people like them as I never hated someone so much in my life but obviously by them waving at me I sense that eight years was not long enough to get the message. But I can not take it anymore as I know therapy is the only thing that will get them to stop stalking me or some other poor victim to they're endless stalking. I am thinking about waiting for them to go near me again and curse them out to make them stop stalking me. I not going to be nice because if I learned one thing about stalking is being kind does not work it just get WAY worse. I want to know if this will get them to stop because I tried to be nice about but it did not work. Nice but firm and it barely worked and I am all out of other options. I never told those idiots I don't want to be their friends because I been advice to avoid them, don't talk to them, and be nice if I am forced to to say a group or partner project but I am tired of talking through seethed teeth and when others take in my anger strangly as I am not usually aroused and angered but in the creeps stupidity she smiled creepily like its completely normal and I felt like I was about to throw up. If their are any other way to get them to stop stalking me PLEASE tell because I am at my point of breaking.

[Hoyam]

did u tell ur parents what's happening? did u talk to the principal at ur school?
if u didn't by now then do it ASAP!
stalking is a very serious issue I don't want to scare you but I want u to know that u must be extra careful.
few things u should know about stalking:
1. the stalking will only escalates.
2. even if u did tell them to back off and they're not ur friends they won't listen they are obsessed with u and the odds are they have an imaginary relation with u, don't talk with them and don't greet them.
3.RECORD EVERYTHING: I mean every time u see them write it down, u changed roads and they were there at 4 pm write it down u will need those as a proof that u're being stalked. If they call u record the calls install an app for that.
4. with time they can be more violent, try to avoid being alone.

please take this issue very seriously it's been happening for years and they won't leave u alone. u should inform ur parents, school authorities and cops too. don't face them while ur alone or curse them or be violent cuz that may trigger them in a bad way.

"But I can not take it anymore as I know therapy is the only thing that will get them to stop stalking me or some other poor victim to they're endless stalking."

Do you have t you can speak to? If not a counselor might be a good place to start. You are not alone

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[Lamia_13]

You are not alone, doggylove11. Please get/talk to a school counselor, therapist, authorities, or anyone in your community that can help you.

[Doggylove11]

I did talk to both the counselor, my teachers and my parents but none of them will do anything about it. My parents got annoyed and told me that everyone changes and they will soon stop stalking me even though they had been stalking me for eight years, the main teacher(the teacher that arranges my meetings, etc) told me that the one thing they would do is put us all in the same room( I only told them about the one stalker because I did not believe they will believe me if I told them her brother is stalking me to but I did mention him) but I strongly and firmly rejected because one i do not think it is going to work and two in their heads they will probably think it as like a date but with those creeps I will never know they might as if know those creeps well enough they will do anything to make me like me and will try to stalk me "less" so i can be there friends as i know i will be forced to speak kindly( not to mention they might commit suicide or decide to have revenge I do not feel like i want them to turn into a rejected stalker) and my guidance counselor said she will tell all my teacher but sooner or later i will have to deal with it. I hope I don't seem like I am spitting my hate on them to you as many people give me such replies as i tried to be reasonable but i am mad that after years of finally having the courage to do so till this year they wont do a thing to help as the articles and books about stalkers( as I believe they are intimacy stalkers) all said that therapy is the only way as they can probably get a professionally or simply tell them what is appropriate and what is not and tell them to stop stalking me and find someone else. But instead i feel that they think i am the crazy one as they say " But she is smart and nice" or "He so nice and friendly"(as my friends told me that and befriended me because i am now a 'jerk' and tried of being stared towards at) but i do not care they are stalking me and I want it to stop immediately as day by day I sense and I see to that there obsession and insanity is growing and i could care less because trying to talk to my friends to get my information is not nice and taking 8 years to figure out someone is does not like you is not smart. I feel that day by day I can not trust anyone anymore and feel helpless as i am viewed as ridiculous. I know almost every thing they're is about stalking as I look it up almost every day hours a day for the past four years, hoping something they're will help, me permanently get rid of them and day by day it books make it seem impossible but that one thing that will help them therapy.

[unaluna]

I would guess these people dont have many other friends? And they dont really know their way around here; maybe they are from a foreign culture? Becausr it sounds like they are looking to you to lead the way, but you are having a hard enough time making space for yourself, and you dont need them dragging you backwards. thats how i felt about my cousin. She wanted to follow me, but her being over two years younger and more closely controlled by her parents, it was an impossible situation for me. Maybe they will eventually find their own groups of friends; maybe you can help them find a suitable sport or activity to get involved in and that will help them adjust.