[fraiser]

After seven years of marriage my husband said I don't love you. I'm having a hard time being so easy to forget.

[eskielover]

I know that after 33 years of being married to my H.....I realized that I never had loved him from even before we were married.....when I finally was able to get out of the bad marriage & look at it with purly logical thinking rather than the anger I had been pushed to experience in the marriage & living in the same house.

However that being said......there are some H's who are just jerks & use that line because they just want to get out of the marriage & go play around because they don't like the responsibility that comes with marriage.

I don't know but personally if my husband would have said that to me I would have said.....great.....give me a divorce & give me MY freedome from you.......he doesn't sound like a very good H to be so fickle with his feelings that way.

Honestly I do believe in marriage for better or for worse......& one doesn't just go throwing their love around & turning in on here & shutting if off there. So I don't think I would want to be married to a guy like that.

My situation was different really because there were issues he had & attitude problems that raised red flags with me before we got married which was a serious problem & I realized it but just wasn't sure enough about myself to understand what I was experiencing.

Really sit back & analyze your marriage & think about the quality & whether you might not just be better off getting rid of a guy who isn't going to be dependable with his love & caring & who at least wants to work at making the marriage work.....my H didn't want to work at it, he just wanted me to tolerate him the way he was even when it was harmful to the marriage & to me emotionally.

Think it through....you may really decide that you don't love him either.