[kala83]

I am offically confused as hell by my friends...they create tons of drama and over analize things all the time...but then they can turn around and I can three hours worth of conversation with them and it all turns out ok..

they jump to conlusions about things, without really thinking, and they don't really aim to be mean they do it more so out of concern and worry for me.

which is appreciated but when it comes down on my head...like a ton of bricks it can be annoying.

but I guess I am for the most part ok cause whatever issues I had have now been talked out.

it really just started with me hanging out with a friend mine that wanted to see me and some harmless joking around that my other friend did not view as appropriate, and it made him suspicious of the other people and if they were gonna stir things up or not. Cause sadly some of our friends have been known to do that.

amm so very confused and just not even wanting to comprehend what may or may not be going on.....

[kaliope]

unfortunately this is what happens when groups of people get together. that is why it is important to have good communication skills and hopefully trust in one another so that you can talk about things later and clear the air. take care

[kala83]

the thing that is annoying that is that some of these friends will tell me that by me talking to people I used to sexually involved with it will make it possible that these people will think I want to have something with them sexual again.

Because I have a sex addicition, and because of my Histronic Personality Disorder, and BPD I can come off very flirty toward other people and I don't even realize it and even if I am not really cheating on my BF my friends are trying to show me that, that does not mean everyone in my life is going to be respectful of that I am not going to go that extra mile....

and my flirtations could be possibly send mixed signals and they want me to be aware of that just so that I don't end up hurting myself my BF or my friends.

But sometimes how they give off this message where as it is a good message to give, they can be fairly blunt and it can hurt a bit to hear it sometimes.

But I try to remind myself they do it cause they do care.