[Sweet tiffy]

Hi my name is Tiffany and lately I been more jealous then before I can't trust my boyfriend at all and im this is making out relationship to ending up well lately his been talking to a friend of his to really late and I just don't understand why talk so late or so early in the morning and almost everyday he states to me that there just friends but I can't believe there only friends when they talk so much. I think there should be a limit to text your friends mostly when each have a partner but I don't know if I'm wrong. I need help I need someone to help me get over this bad feeling in me and help me try to fix my relationship

my guess is that he is giving you REASONS for this feeling. maybe not even verbally - but non-verbal.

Hang in there tiffany

[healingme4me]

Even, if 'just friends', it seems to be taking away, pieces of your relationship. Daily, to that level, does, indeed sound, excessive. My T, would even state that twice a week, is too much.

[fraiser]

Without trust what do you have? Really?

[healingme4me]

Originally Posted by fraiser

Without trust what do you have? Really?

I would take that a step further, and ask, without expressed needs, and a sense of personal boundaries, where can one find satisfaction, in a relationship?

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[Splintercell]

Hi, I am going through the same thing. But when I confront her I’m told its nothing to be worried about and I should trust her.
As hard as it is for me to do this I cant help but feel neglected or feel worried. What I don’t want is to be blindsided but I can’t continue to obsess over it either. You have to just believe that you’re enough (that’s what I do) and that it is just friendship going on. Trust is easy to give but very easy to lose. Believe it’s his loss not yours if he betrays you.

[healingme4me]

Originally Posted by Splintercell

Hi, I am going through the same thing. But when I confront her I’m told its nothing to be worried about and I should trust her.
As hard as it is for me to do this I cant help but feel neglected or feel worried. What I don’t want is to be blindsided but I can’t continue to obsess over it either. You have to just believe that you’re enough (that’s what I do) and that it is just friendship going on. Trust is easy to give but very easy to lose. Believe it’s his loss not yours if he betrays you.

Are you satisfied, when you are left, feeling neglected? Is 'that' truly a matter, of 'trust'?

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[Ackroyd]

Ask yourself what you--not he--needs. Obviously, you're not getting what it is you need. Forget the jealousy accusation and just ask yourself what you want him to be for you and if he isn't going to be that-- find someone else.

One of the replies to your states it, "Are you satisfied, when you are left, feeling neglected? Is 'that' truly a matter, of 'trust'? "

No, it's not a matter of trust but of what you yourself want. Believe me, if your partner's not going to give it to you, don't expect that he will ever change.

This person is probably not right for you and won't make you happy.

[niceguy]

Hi,

Honestly- i think for both of the people who are questioning the integrity of their partners. Continue to question...

Firstly, if they were innocent, then they would take into account the feelings of their partners and change the timing of the texts.

Secondly, in most relationships (if not all) someone will always want more. So even if your partners, are being faithfull - it is quite possible the other is attempting to unravel your relationships.

Thirdly, how many times does someone have to be looking like they are doing the dirty, before the reality kicks in and your crying on your bathroom floor, asking yourslef where it all went wrong?

However, this is the only but.... If they are genuinely just a friend and they are texting back and forwards friendly statements. Trust, that it may all be innocent.

However, really -trust your gut over all others. It is very rarely, wrong.

Smiles and hugs for all

[hamster-bamster]

Do you know the person he is talking/texting to?