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Old Feb 08, 2014, 06:35 PM
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Yes, that's right. After agonizing over a finalization letter and not hearing from him in months he called. He called to tell me my dog, formerly our dog, was due for something and I'm suppose to call him back so WE could take her to the vet. WE. There is no more WE. He ended the marriage suddenly and left me with an emotional wreckage that after a year I still work to get over the rejection. Well, I think I have succeeded. I'm not calling him back. What an enormously huge step. And, I've decided since he left me he has no rights or availability to me. He can call til the moon turns purple and he is unworthy of a response. He gave up the luxury to speak to me. So everyone. You can get past rejection with dignity in tact.
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Old Feb 08, 2014, 06:51 PM
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That's really great that you're not allowing him any power over you, congrats!
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Old Feb 08, 2014, 07:28 PM
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You go, girl!

Tell him "we" now means him and the frog in his pocket!
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Old Feb 08, 2014, 09:40 PM
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He can go on and call. Just ignore him. He's a waste of space in your heart.
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