[spoiledprince]

I suppose these questions go out to all the codependent lovers out there....
Do you feel like you just jumped into the first arms that reached out to you, and rode off hoping this man/woman was your knight?
Do you feel sometimes, like you pressure your lover to be what you want him/her to be?
Do you sometimes wish things could be different? That you could be alone, or with someone else?
Do you feel like, you're ruining his/her life?
What do you do when you know he/she's lying? Do you just accept it as him/her trying to protect you? Would you rather hold on to the corpse of the relationship or do you feel like you deserve the truth?
Do you sometimes wonder... if you're really wrong about everything, and just trying to end it? Or save it?

[chookblue]

Oh wow this is exactly how i am feeling. Allot of what you have said. I have caught my guy out in lies and when i confront him he gets angry and says that he is telling me the truth. I have never fallin in love so deeply before.
So confused too i am so sitting on the fence right now, do i go now in the early mths or stay and it gets harder.

Hear , hear xxx

[spoiledprince]

Thanks for the feedback, I've been in this relationship that I don't think I can live without. I can almost feel my heart beat for my partner, but I don't know if it's my insecurity that tells me this is wrong, or if it's my rationalization. Thank you for the replies, I know that I'm not alone now.

[chookblue]

Yeh i thinking am i still loving this man because i have been single for so long and fell so in love. I have decided to move out now though. Have this relationship living separately.

My husband was wonderful when we were dating and even after the birth of our first born. Then slowly he started drifting, or maybe I did, or we both did?? I can't leave him because of the kids but I don't really want to either. I'm just mixed up about where we are in this marriage.