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Feb 18, 2014, 01:07 PM
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I got married at a young age, met him before graduating high school. He was in the army and was deployed for a year three months after we met. We were engaged before he left and when he came back, we got married at the court house the day after he returned. Three months later we found ourselves pregnant and back then I was happy...in a sense. I guess I have wanted to end it since it started, but I find myself getting deeper and deeper. I separated him 6 months ago and when he got out of the military in Nov he took our daughter to NY with him and left me in CO.
I missed my daughter so much that I had to be with her so I decided to get back together with him, but it's the same relationship. Nothing has changed and now I find myself stuck 1800 miles away from home. No Job. No money. Fully dependent on the man I want to leave once again. I'm stuck. I don't know what to do. I don't have any friends or family here. Just him and my daughter and his family..... |
 Aiuto, Anonymous100108, Fuzzybear, pinkbutterfly, River11
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Feb 19, 2014, 07:03 PM
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Hello and welcome to Psych Central!
 I am sure you are not alone in your situation. Many women find themselves in such circumstances. Have you tried to talk to your husband about how upset you are? What is he doing or not doing that's making you want to leave him?Can you see a therapist to talk about the situation? Would he go to marriage counseling? If not, then I suggest you go by yourself. I am thinking the two of you just didn't know each other well enough. Plus a baby early into a marriage makes the situation tougher. 
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Feb 21, 2014, 10:45 PM
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How was he able to take your daughter to another state without your permission? I believe that's illegal.
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Feb 21, 2014, 11:12 PM
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Six months residency, will make it harder, to move closer to your family, friends, support network, with your child.
Although, where your child, isn't school aged, could be possible. If marriage counseling doesn't work, to bring you both to a working, functional, loving relationship. A consult with an attorney, is a good thing, to look into. Sent from my LG-MS910 using Tapatalk 2 |
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