[Nicole123741]

So, I'm a 15 year old girl. I have been in a long distance relationship with Nickolas for nearly 7 months (he lives in Ohio). Last night, we got into a HUGE argument. (Keep in mind, I got my phone taken away recently becuase I let my friend pierce my nose so I"ve been secretly texting him from an online texting site.) During the argument he was getting really mad and when we were skyping he said, "I can't do this. I'm starting to realize how much you are like your own mother. Your emotions are extremely out of control and you always get mad at me. We are over."

That part about "being like my mother" really offended me. As some of you may know from a previous post. She doesn't listen, she a lot of emotional issues and takes everything out on other people. I hate when people compare me to her and say I'm like her because I NEVER want to be like her. She's a horrible person. But, anyways we broke up and I have no idea what to do with the necklace he got me...I don't wanna let go because I miss him already... What do I do?

[Nicole123741]

So, I'm a 15 year old girl. I've been in a long distance relationship with Nickolas for nearly 7 months and I absolutely adored him (he lives in Ohio). Last night, we got into a really bad argument while we were skyping and I got really offended by some of the things he said.

During the argument, he said, " I can't do this. I'm starting to see how much you are like your mother. Your emotions are all messed up and you are always getting mad at me. I can't do this. I'm breaking up with you." I got really offended when he said that I was just like my mother. I HATE when people compare me to her. I NEVER want to be like her. as some of you may have read in my previous post, she's a terrible person and I can't talk to her, she has really messed up emotional issues and whenever she's mad she always takes it out on me and Emma. I can't stand it when people compare me to her.

So, we broke up. I have no idea what to do with the necklace he got me; I'm still wearing it. I don't wanna get rid of it, I don't wanna let go yet. we haven't even been broken up for a full day and I already miss him... What do I do...?

[curley]

Nicole, keep the necklace, it is sentimental and it was a gift.
As far as the comment our b/f or ex b/f made about you being like your mom.....hmmmmm.... could it possible be true? Is it true? Have you considered it?
I do not know you and I do not know if the statement is true. You may totally know that you are nothing like your mom.
I do not know why this comment was made to you????? sometimes it is best to listen and consider statements like that. You may discover he was right...you may discover he was wrong. If he was wrong then maybe the break up was a good idea. If it was right maybe you have things to work on. Maybe you could admit these faults if they are true in anyway and talk to him about getting back together and work on those problems. Good Luck