[BHTGdogs]

I have a very long story which I'm sure you care not to read lol so I'll give cliffs.

Raised by Grandparents mother chose man with multiple felonies straight out of prison over me at age of 3.

Life was great star athlete placed in state track in multiple events upto age 15

Age 15 grandfather gets lung cancer my world starts to fall apart the only man I've ever known as a father is dying in front of me everyday

10 months later I a wake to see my dead grandfather in his bead

After funeral grandmother moves out of house leaves me with nothing no phone no electricity food nothing. Still to young to work.

I go into depression stop attending school

Instead of taking me to a Dr my aunt from out of state organizes the local police to bust into my grandfathers house with guns pulled and force me to the ground like I'm a drug dealer

I'm then placed in a mental hospital for seven days

They place me on meds all kinds of crazy side effects

Skip forward 3yrs have my current phsyc

Skip to current my phsyc and I have been working off my meds as we both feel I have made great progress after all my grandfather has been gone 13 yrs and I'm no longer a child and understand life now.

Here is where my new problem comes in the grandmother who abandoned me the mother who gave me away and the aunt who had me treat like a drug dealer are all May saying what the Dr and I are trying to do. All I want is a happy life for me and my son. I'm thinking moving and no longer having contact would be a could fresh start.

I'm just looking for any help or ideas. Thank you!

Welcome to PC! I'm sorry you had such a rough start in life but I'm glad you are doing better

I personally think that it would be way better for you to get a fresh start. Especially with toxic people, it's often better just to not even deal with them.

I don't have too many ideas unfortunately. Do you know anyone else somewhere fairly far away that can help you make the transition?

[Trippin2.0]

I vote for a fresh start too!

Toxic people don't suddenly become (environ)mentally friendly, best to cut them off as much and as far as you deem possible.

You've had a rough start, take this opportunity to start over without them.

[BHTGdogs]

I'm on my own going anywhere as I'm from a small town and most people never leave. But I truly feel like I'll never be happy and free unless I am away from these people. The bad energy the give me on a day to day bases is just beating me down.

[hvert]

Getting out and having a fresh start sounds like a great idea! Good luck with your move.