Why do some men leave without saying goodbye?

I'm not scary. I would never attack anyone.

My honey and I were having a bit of a rocky time, but he said that he wasn't going to disappear. He went out to work in a early city and said that he would call me when at sunset. I said that I wanted him to stay with me because I am moving in 5 weeks. He said that if he was back in my city to see his brothers, he would stay with me. Instead, I got a text saying that he was hanging out with his brothers in my city and then going back home. I sent four texts asking why and if he'd stop by at least. He told me that I needed to chill and I said fine. I haven't heard from him since.

Why did he leave me? Why won't he even be respectful enough to talk to me and say goodbye?

Basically, I think people are just afraid. That would explain his behavior. He thinks this will soften the blow (even though honesty would be the best route).

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Fear, as gloamingone said.

caz ur asking too much from a casual relationship. yet u say u arent...

elektra, can u elaborate?

Since when is being respectful, polite, and considerate of others ever not called for? You should be that way to all people.

I agree. But some people think manners are expendable.

I agree.

Because they are cowardly.

I guess so. Why can't they just put a sticker on their heads so that I know they are babies before I give a **** about them? ;P

I disagree with this. yes, they are afraid. Stop there. That they are thinking of the other person to just drop things and leave is bullsh**. People who do it like this primarily are protecting themselves NOT the other person. After all they are leaving for their own, typically, selfish reasons, why would they be looking out for the other person?

Simply put, they are cowards.

He sounds very self centered and it's probably best it ended now instead of later

Agreed. .

lack of maturity to face the problems and lack of self respect to admit their wrong behavior.It takes a man to be able to do it without cowardice.I would say good riddance.

Well, I wish that I could have just made it through the 5 more weeks until I move. Now I'm depressed and will have no one to talk to on Skype when I go. Friends don't often what a romantic interest does.