[BipolarGirl1997]

So a few days ago I saw my ex boyfriend on this dating site called meeteme. I accidentally clicked on his profile and saw him, dredging up old feelings. And then suddenly he messaged me wanting to talk about how I broke his heart when he and I broke up 3 years ago and he needed closure. So I complied and helped him with it and he told me how he now has trust issues. And I will admit I was 14 at the time (young and dumb) and now that I'm 17 I have changed my ways and I love him with all my heart. Buuuuttt he has a girlfriend that he really loves. Well at first we started talking formally, then if became more friendly, and then it became sexual and loving. We ended up sending a few pictures and we eventually ended up having sex after talking for 6 hours. He told me that he does love me but he can't break up with his girlfriend, and he asked me if I would keep us getting together a secret. I said I would because I don't want him to get angry with me. I really love him so much but I can't just simply try to break them up. What should I do???

[healingme4me]

Let it remain a secret. Recognizing, it's secretive nature, may result in unmet needs on your end.

There's stories online, about other women, for other women by other women. I'd highly recommend reading these stories, because they will address emotions

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Honestly? you should move on. Yes I will be honest and say you have the responsibility in this in that you agreed to have sex with him and did so. That part, I don't know what you should do about but he, quite simply, used you for sex. That he said he won't/can't leave his gf for you, says basically it was sex and he's a cheater and is ok with having had sex with another girl and cheating on her while he's not wiling to break it off as if he loves her but can't keep his junk in his pants? Sorry but even if you loved him at one point, would you even want a guy like he clearly is now? If he's willing to do that to her, at some point, he'd do it to you anyway.

Move on... you'll get over him.

[gayleggg]

Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006

Honestly? you should move on. Yes I will be honest and say you have the responsibility in this in that you agreed to have sex with him and did so. That part, I don't know what you should do about but he, quite simply, used you for sex. That he said he won't/can't leave his gf for you, says basically it was sex and he's a cheater and is ok with having had sex with another girl and cheating on her while he's not wiling to break it off as if he loves her but can't keep his junk in his pants? Sorry but even if you loved him at one point, would you even want a guy like he clearly is now? If he's willing to do that to her, at some point, he'd do it to you anyway.

Move on... you'll get over him.

Exactly my thoughts.