Help! Marriage crumble!

My husband loss his mom two years ago. He was depressed and left my son and I for 6 months, at that time I was about 3months pregnant with our second son. I know he is depress bc of a sudden loss of his mother whose he is close to, but he won't talk to me. He don't admit that he's depress. Months goes by, I thought he is getting better, time will heal, I thought in head. He is a quiet person. He don't say much words. He do what he suppose to do and get by day by day. I have come to a conclusion from all the time that we argued, he is depress, still grieving from the loss of his mother which he still buried deep in his heart, and blaming everything that happens on me. He tried to find any possible mistakes to blame it on me and my family. And now he even wants me to move away from my family and friends to a different place. I was mad and angry at him, but after thinking thoroughly I really feels sorry for him and wants to help him, but don't know how. Please, I need your advice, what should I do to help him out. I know he won't go to see a therapy, he don't believe in it. Thank you

((LynseyQ))

(((LyndseyQ))) Maybe the best thing you could to do help your husband and family is to go for counseling yourself. This situation is affecting you ALL and some relief and support for you would be a good thing. Glad you came here to share.