[sublime22]

i'd like to explain my sittuation in a few words.
I met with my significant other last August. Due to a visa issue we got married on November. Only a few months after we met.
We have been living together....
I came in the United States because I was heartbroken and I just wanted to start fresh.
My main issue is that I am stressing to much.
I see red flags everywhere. He doesnt text me as much anymore? red flag. I feel I have to leave him.
we dont have sex as much anymore. red flag...everything in my head is falling apart.
He texts his friend(female friend) to go out for a drink...I am just drowned with jealousy.
Its un imaginably difficult. Unbearable even.
My stress levels are way off...getting stressed everytime i see him touch his phone, I am stressed cause I feel like he is gonna leave me,
he has done this before he says.
He says that he has been swearing he loved a girl and then just the next day he left her.
He is temperamental....unstable even....
I cant stand him....I dont know what to do anymore. I tried telling him to break up but he just rejects it as mere complaining on my part.

[Maria116]

Sounds like you may need a vacation or getaway on your own to think things through... would that be possible? It's hard to make good decisions when you're this stressed. What is your and his background?

[Travelinglady]

Hello, sublime22, and welcome to Psych Central! I am sorry for the red flags. I don't quite understand the visa thing. Is that why you married him so quickly?