[heavyhauler]

Hey all I'm new to this and I thought I would drop a few lines I just lost my world
my home, wife, kids, employment I guess she had her reasoning
She suffered from significant depression and she has had trust issues and assumed the worst at all times regardless as to the situation the reason behind my proceeding divore
I was hurt on the job which led to us not being able to talk for several days (phone got broke) and the one person that I perceived to be a friend turned out to be lying to her and sadly I'm 21hrs away from my kids and I just want to scream I admit I was no perfect husband nor father but I done everything I could to make things right where did I go wrong

[Travelinglady]

Hey, Heavyhauler, and again, welcome to Psych Central! Alas, sometimes we do the best we can and things still go wrong. We are only hearing your side of the story, though.

I can certainly understand how you would feel lost. None of us is perfect. Is there anything else you can think of besides a lack of trust that led to your divorce? Maybe if we knew more about things, then we might be able to give some more advice.

How are you doing with your health problems? Are you okay? I'm wondering if you could afford to at least find a job that's closer to your kids.

[curley]

Hi Heavy, Welcome to PsychCentral. Like the previous poster said, you did not give a lot of explanation about what you did to try to make things right or
what was said to your wife and why she believes what was told to her.
If you realize that you are not a great husband or father it may take a while to prove that you can be. For example you can not expect years of bad behavior to be forgotten over night. (Just an example)
We all make mistakes and it must be difficult after being hurt to go through all these problems but if you want to be with your wife it is worth the effort.
Good Luch