[amber4321]

How did the relationship start for you? Did you have red flags at the beginning? If so, what?

How about devaluation? How long into the relationship did it start and how did it start?

[trying2survive]

Originally Posted by amber4321

How did the relationship start for you? Did you have red flags at the beginning? If so, what?

How about devaluation? How long into the relationship did it start and how did it start?

ha ha ha ha ha, one of my ex's i recent broke up with was a sociopath, never ran into anything like it before. i will put it like this..i never knew what hit me until it was too late.

i could never understand why she didn't want to spend a lot of time with me, she sweet talked the hell out of me, but never backed up anything she was saying, it was only to get what she wanted out of me, me with my BPD i never stood a chance. i was an object, something to be used to achieve what she wanted. i never even knew women could be sociopaths, on tv it's always men!

she never wanted to cuddle after sex, never wanted to hang out and talk afterward,she always "had to go" as she put it..i always found this odd..but i though i loved her and the sweet talk was so good.man, than girl could lie!
lie about anything with no remorse & get mad when i would catch her in her lies, accuse me of "checking up on her" if the stories don't match of course i'm going to check facts..i'm not a total fool! LOL! no remorse whatsoever, i never seen anything like it, know they are hurting you and doing you wrong and don't even care

crazy part about it is i still have feelings for her, even though i know she is incapable of caring about me wow, i'm really messed up!