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Old Apr 30, 2014, 09:16 PM
Lizzy31 Lizzy31 is offline
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This seems like a very silly problem for a 31 year old woman to have but I sadly do. I was never good at making friends. I was always shy and . I am a bit more open now but besides spending time with my family and fiancée I really only have 1 girlfriend. There are girls I talk to at work but only one I would even think would maybe want to socialize outside of work with me. I airways think people think I am odd or different. I also think I am not worthy to be there friend to begin with. I never liked myself or felt comfortable being me. I always wanted entombed approval but never received it. Any thoughts?
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Old May 01, 2014, 01:25 AM
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First rule of Friends club. You must first like yourself in order to be liked by other people. Second rule of fight club...er sorry i'm a film buff. Seriously though that is the way to go. I bet you have many great qualities. So start practising a bit of self love....er well you know what i mean.
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Old May 01, 2014, 01:32 AM
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The quickest way I find friends is to complement them. It starts a conversation. I agree that you must like yourself first. If you have any trouble or questions PM me

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