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#1
Apr 25, 2014, 01:24 PM
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My friend said she isn't poplar/doesn't have many friends is because of me,& that she's my friend because I follow her around.
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Apr 25, 2014, 01:33 PM
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That wasn't a.very nice thing for her to say.
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Apr 25, 2014, 01:47 PM
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Hi The Fox & the Hound, I wouldn't be calling her your friend then, she doesn't deserve to be your friend!! Maybe try to focus on people who might??
Alison 
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#4
Apr 25, 2014, 01:52 PM
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Yea
 She said I'm only her friend because I follow her around. She yelled STOP FOLLOWING ME AROUND!".People don't talk or like to her because if me, she said that. She even made lies, saying that her mom said rude things about me. That I don't dress good,have weird/ puffy hair. ,& are immature... |
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#5
Apr 25, 2014, 02:00 PM
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When someone says you are the reason they are not liked, it is about their issues, not yours. L
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Apr 25, 2014, 02:09 PM
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Sounds like she's upset, angry about something/s, stressed or feeling a need to be in control............and taking it out on you. Hopefully she can work out or get help with her problems but you can really do with some real friends around you. Focus on you, you've had enough to deal with you don't need to be in the middle of all this.  Alison |
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Apr 25, 2014, 02:17 PM
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I was used really. Its all about self esteem, I had none. I was grateful for any crumbs. Different now, I've worked v hard at raising my self esteem. |
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#8
Apr 25, 2014, 03:17 PM
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She gets angry so fast,& seems to be sensitive
. She knows I don't have much friends,but she brags. About who talked to her, who had nice to her,& always over exaggerates. Saying she is really smart, gets everything, brags about how she does at things,at other things. It makes feel even more worthless,& than I am right now. Plus, she tries so hard to act like other people. I have two school friends now, that's it.I hate myself,so much. I don't want to leave her. I have done things too, but if she didn't brag,& act in these ways, I wouldn't care. I am so sad,& scared for her to leave. I've been through everything with her. |
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Apr 25, 2014, 03:36 PM
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Hi, she sounds a bit self-centred to me, am I right?? And it's not the number of friends (although is she really a friend??) you have that matter so much it's how much the people who are your friends really care about you, are really there for you that matters.
Now she doesn't seem to be giving you the respect, value or support that you deserve, in fact it seems like she might be making things even harder for you and you can't really want that, can you? You say you've been through everything with her, but just how much actual, real help was she, really? And if you've been through everything with her surely she should be treating you better than this right now??!! Still, as for you feeling worthless, at least you know that there are a lot of people on here who don't believe that you are, don't you? It might be hard for you to believe yourself, but you really, really aren't!! Try to keep on telling yourself, making yourself believe that, please. And let this girl know that you are worth so much more than her "friendship". Alison |
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Apr 25, 2014, 03:40 PM
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#11
Apr 25, 2014, 10:02 PM
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Tried texting her, no reply. Everyone thinks she's a sweetheart & really nice. I hate it. People are starting to talk to her. No one does to me, they bully me. Why? Why do they hate me?
She said shed always be thee for me. She doesn't care about popularity. It angers me that she'd make up things about her mom ,that she said these rude things. Why would she do that, why? |
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#12
Apr 26, 2014, 11:01 AM
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Noting today, she usually says sorry after this. Got nothing.
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#13
Apr 26, 2014, 03:02 PM
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Hi The Fox & the Hound, probably best that you haven't heard from her. It doesn't sound like she's been much of a friend to you, so maybe best to go your own way without her do you think?
As for the bullying though, you have to tell a teacher/tutor. There's no reason at all you should have to put up with bullying!!! And as for hating you, they probably don't even really know you, right? They are probably a lot more upset/annoyed at/frustrated by/resentful towards.............something about their lives, their experiences, themselves than they are at you. It's their failing they're behaving that way, not yours. And please don't let them get away with bullying you, please tell a teacher/tutor. Alison
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Apr 26, 2014, 03:13 PM
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Apr 26, 2014, 03:50 PM
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Hi, I would hope her "negative influence" over you would stop once you cut off the friendship, but if she's known that you were being bullied and let it continue or you think that she's been encouraging the people who are bullying you she should be reported too.
Alison
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Apr 30, 2014, 11:57 AM
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She said her parents were forcing here
for a long time. I want to die.
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Apr 30, 2014, 12:53 PM
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Hi The Fox & the Hound, well whatever her parents are or aren't forcing her to do it sounds like you can really do without her. Place your worth in you, not inher and talk to people who can really help you.
Alison
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Apr 30, 2014, 01:24 PM
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I have learned that i and i alone am responsible for my happiness, most people these days are as reliable as wet toilet paper!  
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Apr 30, 2014, 01:25 PM
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I have learned that i and i alone am responsible for my happiness, most people these days are as reliable as wet toilet paper!
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Apr 30, 2014, 01:27 PM
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I have learned that i and i alone am responsible for my happiness, most people these days are as reliable as wet toilet paper!
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Apr 30, 2014, 01:28 PM
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I have learned that i and i alone am responsible for my happiness, most people these days are as reliable as wet toilet paper!
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#22
May 05, 2014, 01:19 PM
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Ok, so we made up. Then we fought again
I feel like she brags. So, I feel like she is always angry with one of her friends.there seems to be something always going on in her friendships. She did the samething to my other friend. Always tries to get people on her side. I did things too, but she also does. When I say it. She ignores me,& walks away. |
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