I really didn't want to. I kept saying no. But he is drunk and didn't care. He got his way. I kept saying I just want to sleep. He ruined my night. I can't stop crying.

[smmath]

Aww, sweetie, I'm sorry you went through that. Message me if you want to talk.

Last night I just wanted to pack and get out. But I know he was just drunk and would never do that normally. He probably doesn't even remember it properly. And if I tell him today how it really was he will be mortified.

I'm so confused

[healingme4me]

Can you handle more drunken moments, such as that? Confronting him, is a step. It won't change. He's capable, in a black out moment?

Sorry you just experienced that.

Is he truly worth it? Are you certain it wasn't about 'power/control?'

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For you:

[eskielover]

If they have it in them to do it when they are drunk.....it's in there anyway....don't fool yourself that it was only because he was drunk.

Is that really the way you want to live....if it was this time....there will be more.....dang....let him be mortified if that's really how he will feel.

If he has any sense of caring then it will shock him into stopping. Otherwise he really doesn't care about you or himself....only his liquor.

I'm sorry you went through that.....but it's giving you a true picture of who & what he's like.....& only you can determine if that isn't the way you want to live in the future.

Well we spoke abput it and yes he did feel really bad about it. He always does what he can so I don't feel sad and uncomfortable normally so that he did this was completely out of character. And I know he wouldn't knowingly do it again. At the same time I am aware he could get like it again and if it does happen again I will leave. But he promised he would never get in such a state and do it again. We've been together for seven years and I couldn't imagine life without him so I'm not willing to walk away yet. It just wasn't him.