[RobG]

Hello so, how do i say this?
Alright well, there this girl, shes going home soon, so at this point it really doesnt matter, i live in irelnd, i have a girlfreiend of 2 years.
For some reason, I really like this girl. Ive never really gotten to know her, so the attraction is purely based on a feeling that i think i like her, an ideal probally, but she is very preety and cute, and always smiling, and nice, she seams good. So i kept telling myself i wish i could have just gotten to know her, thats all it is.
And maybe that is all it is, I would just like to have actually talked to (properly/hung out with the peson i like, and i probally would see her as who she really is instead of the initial image she puts forward which is all ive ever really gotten) so im still thinking about asking if shed like to meet up once before she goes and we might be able to have a little bit of a bond, but that also seems a like a bit of a date, which would be awkward and not appropiate.

However, yesterday i was out on the town and i saw her in this pub/club we go to often. I was actually about to leave when i saw her, she was on the dance floor and i dont dance, after confirming (visually) her identity, i quickly left before she spotted me. I wasnt in the zone for funny communication and if i see her out i want to be fun, though i have said this before once tomyself so i guess most of the time im not and now its quickly to late. Anyway, the point is that i left, but more than that the point is that i left with the image of her burned into my head and left me wondering again what my feelings towards her are.
I think its probally imposible to say without spending any real time together, but seeing as i dont dance i coulnt do over and say hi, because then id either have to stay and dance, or immediately leave so it would be a bit pointless.
Id like to explore the feeling, but i dont know how much of it i am allowed to. I know any of a feeling like 'i want to kiss you' would be inappropiate but im not sure of the inbetween parts.
So im quite conflicted when it comes to it, ultimately i would have just liked to hang out with her abit before she left, though of course, if all i wanted to do was hang out with someone then i wouldnt really mind that she was leaving, so maybe its something else.

Ok, im sorry i cant make this more coherent, i think the rambly nature of this post speaks for itself,
The main points were
i have a gf, but theres another girl i feel attracted to
i would like to have gotten to know her a bit, but she is leaving soon.
Im wondering if i should try once more to get to know her before she goes, or weather i should say anything to her at all, or if i should do nothing. I would like her to know that i like her in some way, without seeming like a fool, i think that would be enough for me if she knew.

[hvert]

Instead of worrying too much about this girl that will be gone soon, I would wonder about whether or not this was a sign I needed to end my relationship with my current girlfriend... or are these feelings just coming to the forefront because someone you are sort of attracted to is leaving?

I don't know why you'd care to tell a girl you're attracted to that you lilke her, at all if you are in a relationship already. Don't even pursue or say anything unless you're ready to break up with your girlfriend now. Even just telling the girl you like her and are attracted to her is betraying your current relationship.

As hvert said... It would make me wonder what is not right in your relationship currently to even be tempted by other women like this. Maybe it's time to move on.